which do providers prefer first and which do clients prefer first?

when I open the door, first I love to have passionate kisses combined with lots of gropping and rubbing. I love to tease a man, make him ride waves without completion for a long time, to the point of panting and begging. So, the order we please each other orally is not important, because is part of the whole time we were together, happens over and over during & in between other delicious things we might be doing.

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time is money (pun intended), go for 69 right off the bat, so everyone is happy.

there were more women like you and with your type of erotic attitude. Count me in for the dkf, the rub, and a quick grope!  

Personally, I'd prefer to start DATY as THAT gets me really fired up, especially if the woman is really enjoying herself, but I find most ladies, after that, need the meat IN NOW! And that's just when I want the BBBJ and the IN comes later...so it often just doesn't work out...just my experience.