In my experience, it seems that providers prefer to give BJs more than they like to open up for actual penetration, or to get DATY.  I'm curious.  One provider said she prefers to give BJs more than penile penetration because it makes her feel more in control.  And your thoughts.....?

I love giving blow jobs because I think it's very, very sexy to take a guy in my mouth and look into his eyes, it's a huge turn on for me.  I love penetration because it feels great.  And I love DATY because I have a pulse

Call me greedy but I'd say yes to all three!

You get to order all sorts of wonderful things from the menu.