TER said I can't send SPAM or else I will lose my membership. So until you guys help me with the definition of SPAM nobody gets a ham from me.

This is TER's policy on using the TER email system.

"9. Our Private Mailing system gives you the ability to e-mail other VIP members. If you want to know more about a review, or even if you have provocative questions/opinions for our mysterious popular sex-perts, The Girl Next Door or Randi Lane, your letters will be answered -- in person! What a great way to receive any information you need."

This policy is posted on http://theeroticreview.com/vip/whyjoin.asp .

-Hoot.