Is it just me or does any one else experience providers backing out of a date with little or no concern for the guest? Especially after setting everything up and finalizing details.

I can relate to your rant. This has happened to me too at various times.  

Guys who are super critical and love to rate the ladies 6/7, will suffer the cold shoulder or get tons of excuses once the ladies you try to book have the chance to view/read your reviews on TER.

haha  

Not to be mean, but guys like you two dudes are a liability for high end girls who's scores are the reason why they can maintain their high rates. One of the reviews rated a girl a 7 in appearance because of her hair since she just got out of the shower? Seriously? Like UP said, no provider that values her business will go all out to please the hell out of you only to expect a 7 in return.  

No one woul ran form you then
 And I totally agree with two posts above from woman..
What is funny for me - that we all know who is who yes using alises .. thanks god I do not need use that - any way you will find out me by my accent

say "NO" during screening... righteous. No harm, no foul, no date committed to. Screw with the guy, say "YES" and then pull a bunch of bullshit... no es bueno.  

I've also had this happen a few times, but usually have been able to reschedule shortly thereafter, typically the following day.  
If you can do this, just chalk it up to "shit happens", and don't take the postponement personally.  Look at the bright side...you'll be even hornier when you meet her.

the half empty buyers remorse guys. All these guys are gonna do, is use an alias to write reviews from now on. Agency girls do care about their reviews, I forward all reviews to the ladies I work with, when they get a sucky one, I either let them read it or some just want the cliffs notes, so they can improve.  

I have tons of gentlemen who cancel on me last minute! I would say 50% of my dates cancel they day of after screening and conversation. I understand there are "time wasters" but, they all have references with good things to say.

Yeah, it's shitty, but it definitely happens. If she's not hurting for business and you're only booking a short visit, then you can bet she'll cancel in favor of a longer date or if one of her favorites comes a-calling.

As frustratingly simplistic as it seems, it probably had nothing to do with you and everything to do with them. I don't think it would have been your reviews if they had already accepted the appointment.  

Elspeth, If you are unable to return a reference requests, please do not request other ladies to provide you references for anyone either.

I really wish I knew what you were talking about. I don't seen any requests from you Scarlet. I just checked my TER inbox.

I always give references and can name many Ladies I have given references to. When did you request? On what site or email?  

We are suppose to be a community and I treat all providers with the same respect I would like to be treated with. I'm really upset that she would say such nasty things about me. I have provided many references for clients I have seen personally, and always hope others will do the same.

I agree with your post except for this part,

I am late to this discussion but feel the need to set the record straight. I know for a fact that Elspeth Sinclair has served as a reference for me. I've seen her a number of times and she has become a trusted friend. She is clear, articulate and professional in every single email or phone communication that I've had with her. Perhaps she's being unfairly criticized here because her name is similar to another provider and she's been confused with someone else. If anyone wants the complete picture of how kind, caring, and wonderful she is, just go check out my or any of the other rave reviews of her.

a good catfight?