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What not to do...
Waterclone 78 Reviews 959 reads
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If I ask your rates & don't reply once you send them, you don't need to email me two years later to say you're retiring & pimp your friend.

I understand recommending a friend to your clients, especially if you are retiring (or more likely moving on to management) but I am not your client.  We never met.  I asked you one question two years ago, and didn't like the answer.

And, she didn't even mention the friends rate, which is why I had to email her in the first place.  Not mentioning the rate in the ad.

I'm almost tempted to write back and say "Thanks for the recommendation.  I'd love to see your friend for $50/hour.  I'll tell her you recommended me."

Undercover Provider537 reads

Is my take on it.
She saved your mail address, regardless of what was about.
She's retiring and using her contacts to announce it and suggest her friend.
The mail probably was not just for YOU, but was BCC to a bunch of guys.
Don't take it personal, it was just a marketing strategy, specially if she is going into management like you guessing

She sent her message as a reply-all to the last message she sent me listing her price, so I am pretty sure she was well aware that we had not communicated since, but was mass mailing everyone she ever had any contact with.  

I just thought it was funny, and a good example of what I consider to be poor etiquette

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