In an email exchange with a provider where I asked if she was "GFE", she replied she felt uncomfortable answering due to LE concerns. No specific acts were requested/inquired about. Purely a "are you GFE or not" question.

Is it inapprpriate to ask a potential provider if they are "GFE"???

A lot of ladies will feel uncomfortable answering questions about services offered from someone they don't know.  Even if it's just "are you GFE." That's why many of their web sites and ads request that we not ask about services when we first contact them by email or phone.

That's why TER is so valuable.  We can find out what services are available without asking them.

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that is why you can look at the VIP details and you can tell what type of date you might have.
Always remember, YMMV.
If you come over and aren't clean, nice, considerate, well groomed, and easy going she might not provide you with her usual.
Make sure you clip your nails too!

AR

Never mention $ or activities during first-time meetings.  You broke that rule.  If you read her reviews, you will know whether she is GFE without having to ask.  If in doubt, PM her reviewers BC to inquire further...

Why do you assume she has reviews?  Let's start with this assumption however - the lady had an ad somewhere that said she was an escort.  She either posted her donation amount or disclosed on the phone or in an e-mail.  So if LE is interested that is the only lead they need, they don't need to know whether the service offered is anything more than sex of some kind for money.  Whether she offers GFE is not relevant to LE so by answering the question in an e-mail, the lady has not put herself at any greater risk.

Different story if the questions about the type of services offered happens in the room.

the lady in question has no reviews that I could find.....

Maybe in that case it is worth asking if she is GFE, but given that many ladies ask us not to do this, her reaction to this question is not surprising.  Whether responding to this question is relevant pertaining to LE risk for the lady is itself irrelevant if she is not comfortable with the question in the first place.  

I guess that's part of the game when you TOFFT with unreviewed ladies.  In that scenario, even if she responds yes to the GFE question, you have no way of knowing whether she will follow through with this until you meet her, nor whether YMMV may come into play.  IMO, better to see ladies that have been reviewed, so that this question doesn't have to be asked.

I'm with CD on this subject.

Who cares what she does does, how often and what the fee is?

If her TER scores are in the toilet, both looks and Performance why would you "go for it"??

I NEVER consider a provider who doesn't have 2-3 TER reviews(hopefully recent). As a TER VIP I also check the each reviewer's record in scoring other providers. I've seen both ALL 9's and 10's given to every women they have seen and also ALL 4's and 5's. This ONLY proves whether the reviewer is a ROUGH grader or a WIMP. Neither is worth considering, so I eliminate those guys!!!

With this approach I think you'll not be dissatified or surprised.

GOOD LUCK.........