I am relatively new to this hobby and had seen just a few girls from looking at online ads.  The girls I saw were disappointing. Once it wasn't even the girl in the ad.  NOthing at all like her but I felt obligated to pay for a session anyway.  Then a friend turned me on to TER and showed me how it worked when I was over at his house.  My first date after I began using the resources of TER was actually quite an enjoyable experience. (I just sent in a review)  I never knew TER was out there.  Thank you to TER and thank you to my friend who showed me the site (you know who you are).