Kudos to Thirsty for staying out of the A/R thread and letting it play out.  A few thoughts:

I met A/R over a year ago when she was posting on CL occasionally as a "non-pro." It was a remarkable experience, mostly because of the time off the clock we spent talking about her life.  IMO, this girl is beautiful and very bright; she is also, however, quite intense, and nowhere near as psychologically stable as she believes herself to be.  When she started on the TER board, I was genuinely surprised by the notion that A/R thought she could ever be a regular provider given her personality, and I think my instinct has been proven correct.  My advice to A/R is to get a couple of generous boyfriends who will be sympathetic to her  highs and lows.  But by all means retire; this career is not for her.

BTW, this ain't about performance.  Santino is right.  When A/R is in a good mood, she is a fantastic person to spend time with.  

Finally, while I wish A/R the best, I must join the chorus to blast her for even suggesting that she would give out personal info.  Anyone who even suggests taking such action should IMO be banned from TER.