Recently I have heard from providers of men who use TER as threats addressed to them to get them to do what the man wants.  The threat is either a bad review or something negative on this board.

This is odious behavior that we who use TER should be especially censorious of.   We make a big deal of those who go over the line physically, but this abuse hits us, as well as the providers, especially hard.

We, and TER, have to doubly vigilant to protect those providers who do not succumb to extortion.   No one should post a review or a message that is motivated by such base instincts.