Not too long ago I received an unsolicited text message from a well-known local provider advertising her services. Luckily, I saw the text and deleted before someone else happend to see it. Please ladies, do not resort to sending unsolicited text messages or placing calls at unannounced times. We enjoy our time with you ladies, and want to continue, but if unsolicited messages are picked up by SO's, it may be the end of our hobbying and probably the end of other relationships we also cherish. Please be mindful. Thank you.

-- Modified on 4/27/2012 11:27:43 PM

try staying loyal and faithful to a SO and there won't be issues like this

Or...  become single and see all the providers you want, and you won't have issues like this

... imagine the response in the days before TER cleaned up the board. Now even I wish for those days to return.

So sorry to hear this. That lady must be very unprofessional doing this. I am glad that nothing bad happened to you as a result of this and hope you let that lady know not to do that anymore and that she "got the message". Some women out there are very desperate for business sometimes and that's sad!

I highly suggest you have a secret hobby phone. One that requires no contracts and no billing...pay as you go.  Also establish a secret email account that is only used for hobby related exchanges.

Years ago I made the mistake of calling a Provider from my home phone. I think I left her a voice mail that I wanted to book an appt and would call back later. I then left the house. When I returned I discovered she had left a message on my answering machine.  Holy crap! Luckly I earased it before damage was done. But it was a close call.  I learned my lesson.

...and I think it's reasonable.  Fucking other women behind a SO's back is still fucking other women... whether it's for money or not.  If you're going to do it, expect the possibility of complications.  

If you don't like the possibility of complications, get a blow up doll.  

...that would be NO fun!!!!

My SO wouldn't understand that....I can't even imagine that discussion!!! >smile>

Sure... Just get a doll that looks like the SO.  When she asks what the hell you're doing, tell her that you need some action... either from her or the doll.  She'll either put out or leave you to the doll.  It's a win for your dick either way.

A provider sends you an unsolicited text...Host of parties giving away names to the media.....Let's have some common sense here people.  Hobby phone or not NOONE should be sending unsolicited texts...That is ridiculous and unprofessional... Should you have a hobby job for women that want work information....How the hell is it his fault if some provider texts him.... Whoever is doing this STOP your behavior now as it affects everyone....

While providers shouldn't cold call you or text you, it will happen.  If you hobby with your regular cell phone, you have no one to blame but yourself, if you get caught.