Ok guys I have a bit of a story. I'll try to keep it as short as possible, but I think it's an interesting story nonetheless. Felt like having a bit of fun tonight, but most places/providers were obviously closed. I decided to visit a local strip club that I haven't been to for a while. I didn't plan on staying long... maybe just a few lap dances to get my dick wet. I sit at the bar for a little while, but didn't see too many girls I was interested in. I got up to use the restroom, and while on my way I lock eyes with this girl. It was one of those moments where you lock eyes with a girl where you know there is a mutual attraction. I'm a young guy, in good shape, and I would say fairly attractive, so its not out of the realm of possibility. I thought to myself "damn... I shouldn't have gotten up!"

Anyway, I come back from the restroom and I see the girl try to get a few other guys to take her for a dance down towards the end of the bar. For some crazy reason, they decline. Lucky me. I make sure to stare her way to try to get her attention. When I see that she notices, I turn away, testing her to see if she would walk towards me. Luckily, she does. We chit chat for a little while, standing very close with my arm around her, and we eventually head to the private area for some lap dances.

This girl got 6 dances out of me. After 3 dances, it was always "just 1 more". I figured this girl was taking me for a ride but I was enjoying myself so what the hell. While she was bouncing up and down on me, she said she wanted to fuck. I've heard of guys banging strippers before, so I decide to push the issue a little bit, and say I would love to and lets make it happen. She kinda ignores it at first, but things started progressing. This is where things get interesting. Things got progressively more erotic, with some mutual touching, her letting me suck on her nipple a little bit. We even did some quick kissing with a little tongue (we had to be very discreet because of the security guy watching). She says that shes horny, and we continue teasing eachother by saying things like "i want you" and moaning. At the end when I finally cut her off on the dances, she asks for my phone number! She punches in her number (supposedly) on my phone and dials it, and says "ok I'll call you". After I left, I sent a text saying "Nice to meet you tonight baby, hope to hear from you soon". Did this girl play me, or do I really have a chance to bang this girl? I'm not exactly expecting her to call, but it would be pretty cool. If she was playing me, why go through the whole act with the phone number? Especially after I said no more dances?

If you need to ask......presume yes.

a ploy to keep those lap dances goin.  I know from experience that strippers know how to work their customers ... especially the Ruskies.  That's also how she'll get you to come back and see her again.

Realistically, if she did want to fuck you then you would have met her after work that night.

Hope I'm wrong though and good luck.

... where the back room action was wild, if you were there in the afternoon and business was light. I had my share of DFK, DATY, hand jobs and BBBJ there and then a lot of hot action off the premises, including doubles. Sadly, the place no longer exists but I have some hot memories!

If you did get played it wasn't for much. If she really wanted to get money out of you she would have set up a pay-for-play date. I've had a number of such experiences with strippers. If you'd like to see her try to set up such a date.

You get soooo close, but yet soooo far away from sealing the deal.
My balls were turning blue just reading this post. Sorry dude. Better luck next time.

nycad

You need to back to the club to close the deal. I think it's 50-50 that you bang her.

Been there, done that in the 90's on the East Side

It was great fun. I happily pissed away a lot of dough and now I wish I didn't. Don't get me wrong, at the time I was young and dumb and really, really horny. It was great at the time, but I shouldn't have done it.

nycad

Was that your first time in a strip club?  Going to a SC in NYC is a waste of time.  How much did she take you for?

At the Harmony, some girls offered (covered) full service in the main room (or up against the wall).  I remember my very first time there, during my first ever lap dance, she (Joanna, from Nicaragua) said, "You want to put it in?" !!!!! I didn't know what she was talking about but figured it out on future visits.  I never partook of FS but had some other kinds of fun (mostly HJ)!

Bring back Joanna! BRING BACK THE HARMONY!!!

"Playing you" as you describe it is her job.  She is working and will do what it takes to get the maximum number of lap dances/cash out of each customer. Perhaps there was some attraction, but odds are all you are getting are lap dances -- unless perhaps she views you as someone who will pay $$$ for private time at a short stay.  Only time I fucked a stripper (without paying an hourly rate) was when she spent every free moment during her breaks getting to know me and then asked me to drive her home after her shift.  What great memories.....   Either way, sounds like you had some fun lap dances, so if that's where it ends, so be it.

"You want to put it in?" !!!!! I didn't know what she was talking about.


Ha, ha ... this is why I love this board.  You just can't make this shit up.

her another text -- ask her what's up. If no response, send another one in a month...who knows could be u'r future wife. On second thought, delete the # and pretend that it never happened. It was all a dream

the verification code thing really sucks.....