However my NY trip is fully paid for and then some in deposits, and it's all from twitter. (I have not started my eros ad yet.)
Also, most of those who find me on twitter are 50+. (Though not all.)
One of the cool things I have noticed about Twitter is, there are many people who think it's a stupid way to market. (And for their personality and approach, maybe it is. They cannot relate in that way, which is great.)
But the people who are marketing on it effectively, know it is extremely lucrative.
Sometimes you've gotta look dumb to some, in order to be smart for yourself. Sure, it looks silly, but they're making money, and forming great connections in the process.
I've nudged a few friends to get their asses on Twitter after hearing their concerns and desires for attracting more quality dates. Using that platform with engagements has attracted many of those ladies higher quality business, and all they had to do was be themselves. They're raising their rates and time minimums as well. (Not everybody, but a certain "type" who are looking for a certain "thing".
(Now, when I say "higher quality", I do not mean higher quality people - but higher quality connections, and more pleasurable dates. Longer dates, longer lasting provider/client relationships.)
Even if the client is even just "lurking," with a moving conversation, they can see a bit more, and relate a bit more before meeting. It helps with the final choice, (yes, or no.) "yes" and "no" are both good words. It's like pictures turned to video, but a blog turned to a moving conversation with engagers. (Engagement is essentially how twitter works.)
I know a lot of people talk about being aloof in order to serve the elite, but we have to remember that it doesn't matter how much money somebody is making & spending, many in all lifestyles want to know the person they are approaching is going to accept and relate to them in some way.
Being real in real-time helps people relate to people. People don't even realize they need a little bit of vulnerability by those they are seeking (and paying.) They seek someone, however, to assist them in something that is very vulnerable for themselves. Their sexual performance and social skill with someone they are attracted to.
One of the most powerful men I have ever met in my life was asked what the most frightening experience he had ever had in his life. He ministered to people in prison in third world countries, led crusades of tens of thousands of people at one time. He had encountered viscious lions in Africa, and met some pretty intense, scary people.
His answer: "Walking up to ask my (now) wife on a first date." Yowzahs.
Some clients boldly book, they don't give a shit. They're experienced, they're not worried what a woman thinks. They want what they want. But many, many - they're watching and waiting for an "in" - something to relate to. As we toss stuff out there, someone sees it, and one weird as fuck tweet, or an "ugly morning, before coffee selfie" tweet is what does the trick.
Sure, things have also backfired in the past, but it's a trial and error when dealing with so many different personalities. Sometimes you don't know what someone is really looking for until they tell you. In my experience, I've noticed what I didn't think would work, worked better than anything pre-planned.
I've met some amazing people on there, and even brought some back via that platform. It's a love/hate relationship, as it causes some vulnerability, but I more love it than hate it. lol!
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