I know a certain popular provider here for quite some time, 4 years now, and she takes quite some time to cum, matter of fact is DATY isn't one of her favorite things to do because it frustrates her, but she lets many of the guys have at it, and they don't have any idea...
Sometimes she's legitimately down with it, it's very spur of the moment, and I really get a kick out of it because, number 1, it's a very special occasion when she's feeling it, it's completely hot for me, and she has the most stunningly beautiful pussy God has created, no matter what she thinks about it. Having her lips in my mouth, swathing her womanhood with my tongue, her scent pervading my senses, is pure heaven. I don't think she even completely realizes her affect upon me.
The experience for me has really hyper-attuned me into really paying attention to her response. It's very slow and gradual for her...fast, I'd say I'm down there 20 minutes, and I've gone down on her for over 40 at times...I like to spend a long time with her, I don't like watching clocks, so spending for the time doesn't bother me, I enjoy her company very much.
It's quite beautiful to see it happen...
She's actually quite sensitive, it seems almost painfully so...she requires the most delicate of touches in order to begin getting her aroused, my tongue in a whisper's breathe proximity like a wet feather gently licking all around her lips and button, on the edges, never right on her at first, she jumps away like an electric shock if you just jump right on it.
When she starts to finally relax, her pelvis, and legs just kind of open, like a book to be read, and she lays there, eyes hooded and her breathing becoming rhythmic...She kind of enters a trance...
That's when she's finally aroused enough where her sensitivity is muted, and I can finally start to lick her lips, and hood...The key here though (with her...) is even though I'm upping the intensity and focus, if I start to apply to much pressure with the effort of my tongue, it'll backfire.. I play a lot of gentle games at this point, just a little randomness for unpredictability in order to build things...
So, in my mind's eye I draw upon a guitar player analogy for fast fretting, a butterfly touch...extremely light, yet consistent...
As her arousal ramps up, she starts to circle her hips, move her pelvis, offering her sex to my mouth...again, the trick is not to dive in and apply heavy pressure...I'll just get a little closer so that more of my tongues surface is stimulating her...it's an oral sex rodeo, I keep my tongue going and I move my mouth in sympathy with her movements to keep things consistent. I NEVER rest my face, chin, upon her...It's a dance.
Pretty soon she starts to hold an arch, lifting her hips off the bed, tilting her pelvis forward offering her clit to my mouth, it's usually quite hard by then and absolutely wonderful to feel that marble...She's so beautiful when pushing forward to my mouth...makes me insane.
By this point it's usually just a wonderful matter of time for the inevitable...I keep a steady tempo with my ministrations, she tends to arch even further, ass completely off the bed, driving her pussy into my mouth...but I still maintain my distance, and gentle pressure...it's like controlling the ring as a boxer, using your jab to maintain distance...
When she's close, her arch gets even more pronounced, then she goes stiff, holds her breath, and gets completely silent, her mouth falls open, and it's pretty obvious she's in the first clenching grip of her orgasm...I usually press a little closer, spreading my tongue, and I lick the entirety of her sex
Then the moan happens, and her body releases, she may buck, and I know this is when her super-sensitivity comes rolling back, so I completely lighten up with my mouth, back to a whisper's touch, and just gently caress her as she comes through the other end..
She may clench my head with her legs, and shudder with involuntary aftershocks...She wants the stimulation to stop at this point, it's quite obvious...
A nice bit of cuddling & stroking afterwards, but if I'm ready, I don't like to let her slope down to much, because as magnificent as her pussy naturally is, after going down on her, she is so plumped up and engorged I have to enter her, it's like her pussy completely sucks onto my cock, and the feeling of it is unbelievable...
Anyhow, it's all about paying very close attention IMHO. All women are very different, and I've never met two who respond the exact same way. If any of you think you have, I humbly recommend that you truly re-examine your approach.
Women are extremely subtle.
Be well...
