Hi all,  

Is it me, or why do all the providers lie about their age, cup size, implant or natural, pictures are all photoshop, faces are covered ( never really know what you are going to get ), till you walk into the room and turn and look behind the door! But shit, by that time it is too late, you already wasted time getting to her incall or worst she is already in your hotel room ( and does not want to leave ). Do any of you guys actually leave after a look and feel that she was not what you were expecting. I am not saying that the provider is ugly - looks are " to each his own".  She is just not what you though she would be. I mean everybody is claiming a GFE experience. But inorder for her to be a GF (even for an hr) she has to be someone that you actually want to have fun with or else I can just get some lotion and use my hands or enjoy some porn and have fun by myself and save my time and money.

God forbid, if you do not have a bunch of reference, the provider would want to know your real name, real work #, real work email, real cell #, etc, etc, etc, while all I know is her BS stage name with fake age, wrong cup size, faces all covered and a picture that is all photoshop. I mean I am all for the safety aspect for the girls and all & I agreed that things have to be checked out. But to be fair for everyone, I am suggesting that provider and client should do a video chart before the meet to see if both parties want to see each other......What do you guys and gals think about this idea?? I really want to know from the point of view of the providers.....For example:

I just saw a provider today & the profile claims her breast are natural ( not ), a DD ( not, maybe a D ). the picture did not show her face, but the body definitely was not the one in the picture. I PM a couple of reviewers in the morning & ask if she was legit, ( but I did not get an answer till after my meeting with the provider - one did tell me that the photo was fake). I had a so so time, but if I knew what she looked like before hand, I would not have saw her. I am just saying :

Anyways can't really name names but him and his butt bro-friend, were ganging up on me when I expose him for the coward he was.

Story:
He went to visit a well known AA provider, and was totally let down by looks + experience, yet he gave her a very high rating, and then went to the secret board and admitted the truth.  He was to pussy of a man to write a proper review cause she knew who he was and was afraid she would expose him out of spite for writing a truthful review.

Anyways he and his butt buddy friend who came to fight someone else battle wanted to call me out for my reviews because they were mean spirited but TRUE ( funny how all the ladies I gave a truthful bad review to have all but disappeared from this line of work or no longer advertising here  .   So when I found his secret post and called him out on it, he also disappeared like the coward he was.

Truthfully most ( NOT ALL ) girls are sub-par in looks compared to their rates, especially those using the famous photo shopper of them all Aldo, they always are carrying a little more to hide.   Next are Clic/Santillo photos, only reason why most girls don't use them is cause they are super expensive.  

In case anything let the flaming begi

Maybe you should review, and point out the deceptions.

Personally, I never run into this, as almost all of the ladies I see or would see I have already met at an M&G.  This has proven to be very effective in my decision making process when seeing new ladies.  As for sharing personal info, this have never boomeranged, and I've been hobbying since 2004.  Membership in a verification site would probably be helpful for you, but that requires...references.  Egad!

As for my last hobbying experience over the week-end, with an old friend I hadn't seen in over a year...let's just say she reclaimed her spot as an ATF.  

Good luck moving forward...

Thanks for the tip, I always wonder about the meet and greet but never attended one. Do you find out about them on the meet and greet board here or did you get special secret invite? I checked out a post about a meet and greet once and look through the list of ladies and they did not seem that interesting ( 90% of the ladies were one ethnicity ). By the were, who was the ATF that you were talking about?

All I can say is "wow". I am new on this message board, how do I look up your previous argument? Where are the providers' comment about this????I really want to see their point of view....

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Was she a high priced escort? $$$$ Some of the lower priced ones use fake pictures to try and lure you. Also, was she independent or with an agency? Agencies do the same.

I would not go on camera because I am trying to keep my identity a secret. Hence the blurred face.

that way if you don't click you can always walk away. Also before your date ask her to send you some selfies,  I always send my hot dates selfies of me before we meet so they know the real me, and vice versa, this way when we do meet is......hotttttt!!

Such as fake photos, stolen photos from other ladies, outdated photos etc. I think you did great by emailing other members but maybe doing it way in advance could of prevented this. Also, asking her how recent are her photos is a great way to approach this as well as running photos on tineye.com.

This situation is really frustrating for the other like myself, who spend thousands every year in order to keep our portfolio fresh and using our own image on the photos. Video chat is a bit more extreme, I feel that by doing extensive research you will get the answers you are looking for, plus keep in mind that you are never obligated to stay, if she is misrepresenting herself, you have every right to leave and she has no right to complain

especially those of us who don't show our faces.  

There are quite a few meet and greets held all over the US and by very well known ladies who trust me  
will only host a classy, fun event. As long as you can get screened and pass their requirements you should really go.  Just keep an open mind and have fun. I am sure you will meet some ladies that strike your fancy.  

If you are ever in the Florida area check out the parties that my friend Softly Sarah and Myself host called
Sun Sensual MNG

Otherwise, you should go the one coming up in NYC (not held by us by I do know the hostesses). Info is on the meet and greet board. PS..I am going!!

Makenzie Rae

In reference to the main post...most ladies do not show their face for discretion purposes. Believe me we all wish we could but can have soo many repercussions cause of that. It really stinks that the situation happened to you.  Please do your research and make sure the ladies are highly reviewed.  I understand your thought about video chat but in no way would I ever do that.  

Good luck...

Hey guys  

Remember that thread where there was a WELL- multi page - REVIEWED lady ( in reality: a fuax lady who was a real life tranny ).  Some guy took the bite and went to visit her and got a bad feeling after the session

Came to TER board to ask about it, and when the truth came out, he was also too chicken to write and proper review and then blame himself for having sex with a guy...  He literally blame himself for being suckered and having sex with a man....LOL

That one took the cake !!!

Well said.

Follow whatever instructions the host/hostess states, if you wish to secure an invite.  In general, that means providing two or three references so that you can be adequately screened.  Once you're passed that, the invites usually include lists of ladies (and often hobbyists) that have also said they are  attending.  If the list is not satisfying to you, you can always decline.  Note that this usually does not get you kicked off of the mailing list, and also that there may be ladies who decide to attend last minute that may be not be on the list.  

As for who that ATF is, she is UTR, and I respect that.

Hey Middle Aged -- why are you such a negative a--hole you really don't offer much to the hobby other then being an Angry Middle Age Putzzz
Xoxo  
Ipdailey

Especially the part about following the instructions of the organizers.  Plus you are right about the list that
the name continues on the list for future parties.  Now if someone wants to be ignorant to the rules and  
do things they are not supposed to then that name will disappear on the list in a flash...Has already happened
to a few peeps on our list!!

Hope to finally get to meet you at the NYC party coming up.

Makenzie

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but is your bitch with MiddleAged because he is an asshole, or because he is lying?

In the infamous words of Joe Friday, "Just the facts Maam" Is he telling the truth, or is he lying about this?