I had an experience where the provider didn't sound too crazy about my age on the phone while setting up the appt, and when I got to the location, she didn't pick up the phone. Oh well, kinda crappy but no big deal.

Why do providers not like us young guys :P ?

Reo most providers frown upon guys in their 20's??

The problem is some young guys.  You may be perfectly ok, but some men in your age group are disrepectful toward providers.  Also, from what I have heard from even young providers, younger men can be rough at times during sessions and not care about the woman's comfort level.  I have gotten recollections that some young men have also been drunk out of their minds upon showing up to sessions.
    The woman that you dealt with appears to be unprofessional.  She should have never made the appointment with you if she was uncomfortable with your age.  Hopefully some of the great ladies that visit this board will allow you to contact them and get to know you a little in route to having a session with you.  If you are a gentleman, your age should not be an issue with most women that run their businesses right.

I know why ...

Stamina!!!! Young guys have lots of it and they want a vibrant session. The reason most providers avoids either young guys or black ones is because they require much more participation as they can go on and on for a long time. Is all about wear & tear...not age or color. I love young guys, I see many of them...they are nice, cute, fun and definitely long lasting. Usually I book my young ones for the end of the day, when I don't have to worry about a "next appointment" and I can really enjoy what they have to offer me

Reo most providers frown upon guys in their 20's?? (img)

EXACTLY! what Betty says might be true for some but personally your resons are the reasons that apply to myself. Also I'm in my mid 30's, I find men my age and older are more appreciative as well as happy with myself than a 21 year old, in fact I prefer men 35 and older but will see men 30 and up. I will ONLY see someone under 30 if they have a MILF fetish. Thats MY take on it. Patriots explained it best so no need for me to repeat my reasons which he already posted.

Samantha Summers of NY Headed toward Philladelphia tomorrow!

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As a provider that has an age limit, I have to clairify.

It has NOTHING to do with stamina, or wear and tear. I have had some very bad experiences with men in their 20's.( before I had an age limit)

Sometimes the maturity level is just so low, they truly do not appreciate the woman they are with,and some have been known to act like we owe them because we are the ones being paid.

True, such behavior can be found with older men as well, however, in my two year experience, I have found for the most part older clients know how to interact with a woman more so then younger clients.

Assuming that Lazloh is not the type of young man that you screen out, how would he get an appointment with a provider that uses your criteria?  Do you ever relax it if the person seems reasonable?  Would you refer him to a provider that would see him after you talk to him either over the phone or at lunch?
    Just interested in knowing.  This subject has come up a number of times before.  Insight from a you probaly will help shed some light on how a decent behaving young guy can get started.

I love them!!! And I think lots of providers miss out on how much fun they are. I see lots of young college boys (even have videos done with them). I have few of my favorites who are shy around women in general or not very experient. I love to teach them how to touch and pleasure, how to play nice and slow, how to feel when I orgasm and I just love the look on their faces when I make them feel things they never had before. A little story. I have a young client, he's 23 now, but when I met him, few years ago he was just 18. Nobody wanted to see him. He was turned down by lots of providers. He finally mail me and explained what happened and that some provider sent him to me because I liked young. Well, this kid was very shy but also very rich ~~~ He sold 3 sucessful internet companies (for 15 million dollars)  when he was only 15 years old. Then, at 18, he bought a company that manages rock bands and today, at 23, he has over 50 bands under his belt. Lots of them ranking millions on the charts. He's a sweetheart, still very shy around women, no girlfriend, and I still see him in regular basis. If only the women he contacted took the time to meet and get to know him they would realize how good of a client he could be. He's an isolated case of being sooo rich at a tender age. But, most young guys I see are nice and fun, just starting off college, they hold good jobs with lots of income to spend and they do not hassle about how much they have to pay this or that. That's MY experience, not sure about other providers. I think it depends where these kids are coming from, the ones I see are not from the hood, but from a more affluent upbringing so I think it counts in how they treat women in general.

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Of course older men has more experience and know how "interact"...but do they treat us any better than the young ones??? I don't think so. The bad reviews I have came all from guys over 50 who I have no idea why they came to see me if I was not their physical type. They are the ones criticizing and looking at every single flaw I have. My young guys come to see me because they know they are going to have the time of their lives and they are not worried about me being a young bleach blonde babe because those they can get for free anytime. When they come to see me they just want the thrill of being with an experienced woman, they are not looking for the fountain of youth.

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Older men (40 and above) in my opinion seem to appreciate being around women of our kind.

I guess it really doesn't matter the age, but more how the person was taught to interact with women.






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true...agree with you but...

every provider needs to do whatever they are comfortable in doing. I'm not criticizing your ways, you know I love you too much to pick on your choices ~~~~  Our taste & preferences in men are different too (thank god of we would be tearing those poor guys apart when doing our doubles...lol) I never had a bad experience coming from a young guy, the bad ones came from older & wiser.

sheesh!  stamina?  i'm 54 and held a stiffy for an hour and a half with a provider today.....don't tell us old guys about those young "quick squirts"....

for the young ones get started. First, they need to make sure this is what they want to experience, make sure getting into the "hobby" is not going to affect other parts of their lives. I think this applies to men of all ages. Second, he needs to do his homework, surf whoreboards, read reviews and check the girls sites clicking on all the links she has so, if there any rules or limitations, he will know beforehand and this avoids wasting his or her time. Third, if there is no age limitation, then mail to the girl and explain everything, how young he is and why he wants to meet her. Be nice, never say any crude things or ask sexual questions. If she accepts and meet with him, after the session is over, ask her if she can be used as reference if he decides to do it again. Ask if she can vouch for him on the aspect that he's nice, respectful and mature enough to meet with another lady.
When I see young guys, who are doing this for the first time, I always take my time to explain the good & bad of being into the "hobby".
And I always offer them to use me as reference in case they decide to see someone else in the future. And when they do, I take my time to reply to the girl he picks and explain how nice, cute, fun he is besides being young.

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older guys can keep a stiff for few hours alright ~~~~ Nothing wrong with that. But, can you bang bang bang deep & hard doggie style for over 1/2 hour non stop without huffing & puffing?  That's what I'm talking about and why providers try to avoid guys with too much stamina. They wear you out and, in a day where there are other appointments to meet, is not something they want for themselves.

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no viagra here, ma'am....and she was screaming most of the way through with no complaints.....wear you out? i promise i won't .  i'll leave something for the next half dozen guys that you expect to see that day / night....the gal i saw only sees one per day and charges top #s....the gals that want to do a lot per day don't want too much exercise from any one client and guys can tell the difference

I'm not talking about you, but in general. As I also not talking about "me" but other providers and why most they avoid a high stamined guy.
Me? I love it, more the better. I enjoy hot sessions, I'm not passive and I can go on and on. Reason when I know I'm seeing an energetic guy I usually book him as my last appointment, so I don't have to worry about the clock and enjoy him way past the time, until he's totally drained

sorry. you're correct . i shouldn't take it personally. i should be thankful....