I am glad to hear that female hobbyist reviews are well recieved on this site. I personally prefer one-on-one vists as opposed to duo's (interesting how quickly the conversation turned into that discussion once female hobbying was brought up) or more but I thought that it was an interesting discussion none-the-less. Thanks NY!
Hi NY! I just moved here so I am new to the city and this site. I was wondering about the prevelance of female hobbyists and how our reviews ought to be different in order to reflect my experiences. Any advice would be much appreciated. Thanks!
Everyone here will wait in eager anticipation for a woman's point of view. I can just imagine it is more of a mental thing with woman, but what do I know. I think most women I have dated needed to be comfortable to have a "real" orgasm and that usually comes over time and being able to let go. With guys it is all about our genitals and feeling as if, to quote Wall Street "we are big swinging dicks". Some of it is cerebral too. I am really interested in seeing how the experiences are similar in ways and also very different. My advice is to just be honest.
two women I'd been with separately several times both experience actual honest full hearted orgasms. It was the most beautiful thing I'd ever seen in the hobby. At that point I knew the truth: It was all fantasy with me. A bit of a buzz kill, yes, but a valuable lesson. (BTW - My ego eventually recovered.) Women bring things to the hobby that are absolutely distinct and honest. So the more femhobbyists reviewers, the better.
Don't feel bad. It is not our fault. Women are just built differently. I like most men have had sex 1000s of times and to be honest I have probably only seen a real orgasm in 5% or less of those encounters. I have never seen a real one from a provider. My mindset is I can't give a woman an orgasm she has to take it. The few times that it has occurred is with a special breed of girlfriend and it really had nothing to do with my technique or skill. I lie on my back and she does her thing. Shit, I could have been replaced by a sofa armrest for all they cared. Most guys go through life believing that dog and pony show that many women do, but it is bullshit. It is a little ridiculous, but hey I am not going to interrupt their performance although it can get a bit comical at times especially when it is totally over the top.
I'd never seen that look of profound possession, a kind of desparation, from each at her turn being pleasured by the other. I felt like an intruder in my own 3-way. But it was a privilege and they were resplendent. So I hope one day I will, in or out of the hobby, bring a woman just THAT. I know it sounds sappy but there can be joy in the giving of a gift to someone who deserves it.
Maybe a woman hobbyist will clue us men into how to do that, how she DID that, with someone we'd also want to see.
I know what you are all thinking “another one of Juan’s opinion pieces, this guy is full of shit”. Let me just say a part of me agrees with you. Sometime I too am appalled at the crap that comes off my fingertips.
I actually had a conversation about threesomes yesterday. IMO the key sentence in your post is "I felt like an intruder in my own 3-way". I am envious that you found two women who were that comfortable with each other. The fact that they could let it all go not only do it in front of you, but with you included is pretty unique. I have never seen an authentic spectacle as such and I am green with envy.
I too have had conflicted feelings over these get togethers. During more than one threesome I have felt like there was an alien autopsy going on and I was the specimen. I always leave feeling somewhat impotent too. I can barely satisfy one woman let alone two. Threesomes hold this mythical place in society and I agree that the two girl blowjob is a truly sensational thing, but I am less enamored with the way they have played out overall for me in the past. I had my first threesome in college and since I have paid for some and basically fallen into a few too. I personally find them overwhelming. There is too much going on and it my experiences they seem purely mechanical as there is never one ounce of real or even fake intimacy. I guess maybe I have gotten together with the wrong women, but I am skeptical that the Menage a Trois can really live up its reputation. I only have two hands, one mouth and one penis. Now that may sound like enough equipment to go around, but there never seems to be any coordination or rhythm. It is like herding cats. The whole situation always seems contrived and somewhat disjointed. Maybe I have been expecting too much?
I had the rare fortune of finding two incredible women. Having excellent chemistry with each, and having listened carefully as they previously described their experiences, preferences and interests, it one day occurred to me: "Of course!"
As far as the producer's involvement in the production, if the three degrees of attraction are primed, then the odds of production success are high. But this event requires time (over 2 hrs IMHO) and experience. Being a newbie in this situation with an inflatable (and deflatable) sexual organ is a sharp disadvantage. But I'm certain that subsequent duos with the right participants, having foreknowledge of the special dynamics of threesomes, can turn out fantastic for the guy. There's proof in all the highly rated duo reviews right here on TER.
In fact, I have two special women in mind right now.....Maybe after they celebrate יום תרועה.
Hummmm......err, first let me check with Citibank.
I am glad to hear that female hobbyist reviews are well recieved on this site. I personally prefer one-on-one vists as opposed to duo's (interesting how quickly the conversation turned into that discussion once female hobbying was brought up) or more but I thought that it was an interesting discussion none-the-less. Thanks NY!
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