what other sites are used in new york. look like backpage is a no-go

I often start with the Ad Board https://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/messageList.asp?boardID=88

... or with Recent Reviews (NY, not SD!) and then I follow the ad or Profile links.

If you're a member of a verification site (Date-Check, P411), they have a search function, too.

Very often, a single recent review will bring me to an ad mall like slixa or terescorts.

In case you are interested you can view my ad in New Jersey ad board.Im less than 10 miles away from NYC.
Outcall also possable
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Iliana