more like a circle jerk with Taranchulas...
Badabing!
In my honest opinion, tantra is nonsense. Essentially it's a regular r&t massage (occasionally the massage is above average) with a lot of Eastern philosophy trappings slapped on either to raise the price or to fulfill some emotional need on the part of the provider.
All of which could be excused, but the sessions I've encountered have also been annoying: the providers insist that you practice some kind of complicated breathing regime and won't let up about it--one provider was at me like a drill seargant until I nearly hyperventilated and passed out. Also you usually are treated to a running commentary on E. Indian sexual practice. And then the release can often be a frustrating blend of excitment/denial in order to lengthen the breadth and depth or one's orgasm.
At the end of each session, I was urged to return to explore higher levels of sexuality, including something called "goddess worship." This seems to me the most dishonest part of the thing, since tantric practioners usually don't offer f/s so this is a bit of a con.
To each his own: I have a low tolerance for hippie/new age malarkey and an even lower tolerance when it's coupled with the sex industry. Perhaps someone else will enjoy it and take something more away from it.
I agree. Most of this heightened experience is BS
The women tend to be older, overweight and annoying
Charge way to much for a R&T with occasional prostate massage
it's an overpriced massage and a total con...eom
Holding out meaning not ejaculating. I think it should be done so that the guy does not get a urinary tract problem. I do not know enough for that, but find that making the cock numb with desensitizing lube works for me. I did see one guy in Florida that is able to grab around his cock to keep him from ejaculating. He lasted a long time with good erection. He is from California so I thought maybe he is a Tantra expert. When you hold out it makes for longer time inside of the whatever whole you wish to delve your cock deep into with the control of not ejaculating too soon.
I have many Indian friends back in Atlanta. Most are Hindu, even my medical doctor is Hindu back home. I like all of them very much. I like all types of individuals as long as they like me too. My closest Indian friend tells me of Tantra and many other Hindu beliefs/practices. He has practiced it so much though that sometimes he has trouble ejaculating at all. Control is good, but it must be to where you get pleasure from it I think. It is nice being penetrated for as long as I want to be by him, but I insist that he must ejaculate at least once for all the pleasure he has given to me.
I have not researched providers offering such service. Perhaps it is a rip off or a con massage item. Or, maybe there is something to it if the provider is f/s. The practice has been around for a long time for there not to be something behind it. I should ask my Indian friend back home when I return. He gives me questions for answers usually. Drives me crazy but is charming too.
Jolie
more like a circle jerk with Taranchulas...
Badabing!
However, she is in Vegas. She occasionally visits our area. Cindy is the real deal. A real Tantra practioner.
http://www.cindyspice.com
A lot of the messages here are negative.
Often, girls use Tantra as a buzzword to describe a massage with a hand job. In the case of these girls, I agree with all the negative comments.
However, there is legitimate Tantra as well. Chandra Devi is phenomenal. But you have to be open to the eastern philosophy of it. If you just want a hand job, then go somewhere else. But if you are willing to be open to the philosophies of it, Tantra can be very rewarding. A way to extend the length of your orgasm and heighten the sensations as well.
Don't let the losers who aren't really Tantrikas put you off the legitimate thing. Give it a shot.
THanks fo rlooking out guys..........