i recently saw a video of a hot tease and denial session.. has anyone tried it? thoughts? Seems kinda cool... but also the thought of " i'm paying for this, wtf? comes to mind.
any providers ( NJ/NY) into this?? might want to bring in the new year with a twist
It seems like a lot of today's evolution has a goal of fast, impulsive yet functional experiences. Teasing and taking the time to get to the grand finish I've found super erotic. It's like having dinner before the dessert. I think that just teasing and not giving in to the final result of explosion eventually is downright mean. Recently I had a lap dance at a club in Portland from a buck naked woman and felt so teased and unfulfilled. However an outlet was available for me to finish what she started and this type of foreplay was hot! I get requests for smothering and teasing often and find that the trust, intimacy, and connection that is formed is unique. It does take more than an hour for me to create this chemistry though.
It seems like you built up to quite a crescendo with that situation. A little bit of delay of game, but you found a way to get your ya-ya's out. Something tells me you know the right buttons to push to get what you want and how to make that happen for others.
Rene/Liz, who just left New York, is extremely experienced in this type of play and I would highly recommend her. I'm sure she'll be back for a visit, but not sure when.
I've found that it's difficult to find f/s providers who are experienced in this type of session (and this is the kind of session in which you really want an experienced provider and not a newbie). There are all sorts of activities one can engage in with this type of play, from being bound and blindfolded, hot and cold BJs, cock rings, vibrators, hot wax, tickling, face sitting, prostate massage -- it really depends on what you're interested in and where you want to take it. Basically, the idea is to bring you to the edge and keep you there for as long as you can take it. The orgasms can be amazing, because you're so horny by the end of the session and you have all this pent up sexual energy ready to release. It's as much a mind game as a form of sexual play (although, I suppose most sexual play is a mind game, in a way).
As someone mentioned before, a lot of BDSM mistresses offer a version of tease and denial, but it's less sensual and more about obedience, submission and punishment. Some goddesses offer another version of the session, as well as some massage providers. There's also a technique called Bondassage involving bondage and massage that's sort of a tease and denial variant (you can Google search it; there was a brief discussion about this here last year).
I love erotic tease/denial and orgasm control. I have pretty much given up FS sessions so that I can explore this more. I am not into pain in any form.....but I like to be sensually kept on the edge and teased/tortured until I have to beg my goddess for my release. Very fun!!!!! Not every provider can do this....it involves "NOT LETTING YOU CUM" but making you beg for your release from all the sensual stimuli. I love to meet ladies with this special skill.
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