If the money was right would you consider taking a nice payment to be a surrogate mother for a adorable couple in need?  

Does this type of arrangement happen behind closed doors?

My friend trusted me with this question and I told him I would ask and get back to him. He is 37 She is 34.

They would want someone off all drugs including weed who was STD/STI free who would be willing to take a drug & alcohol test. A back ground check would also be needed.

I'm starting with the question  

Would providers even consider this??

I think being a surrogate is better suited for a woman who has a sedentary desk job.

Providers = Young Women who need financial support. What am I missing? If I could do it I would. They asked me to reach out and see if this is something that providers would do. When your paying someone to fuck you asking someone to carry a child for 9 months and getting paid for it doesn't seem like a stretch? I thought this was about getting paid for providers and being able to afford a better life.

To everyone who PMed me I will pass along the info to them.

I appreciate the sentiment however that doesn't answer the question. Which I previously asked.

Is this something you would consider?  

eing a provider is all about discretion. Carrying another's child is anything but. IMO, this is a ridiculous question to ask here.  

 
 

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Thanks for the input.  

I got the answer thru PM.

I knew this wouldn't be up everyone's ally. But I leaned something.

Enjoy the day.  

Exactly and then his reply to "Why he is asking provider's this) was disgusting too.  Oh since they will fuck for money why not risk their current profession to carry a baby, possible ruin their body and 100's of other complications that can occur cause why not providers will do ANYTHING for money.  

Oh and your friends are going to cover the massive income loss a provider in NYC will have for 9 months of carrying their baby and recovery period after having the baby??  

I think this post really needs to be removed!!

Here are some resources : https://www.fertilitysourcecompanies.com/surrogacy/looking-for-surrogate-costs-and-financing/ and if they think a provider is going to give up her income for 9 months for the surrogate fee's i found here they are mistaken unless they don't mind a backpage girl cause I cant see a top NYC provider giving up her income for the fees listed on the above web site. I can assure you they make 4 times that in 9 months at least the quality girls you would want to carry a baby

It doesn't seem like a stretch for you to ask someone who usually works for an hour or 2 at a time to commit to a 9 month 24/7 commitment?  I can't think of 2 things further apart.  That's like saying, I know you like to fuck and sometimes that's in a hotel room, so would you be interested in being locked up in a hotel room for 9 months?  

Or are you looking at surrogacy as though it's similar to sex?  If you could point our the commonalities between having sex and being pregnant, I'd love to hear them.

Or, are you thinking surrogacy starts with sex so you may as well look to people who get paid for sex.  Um, you do know that surrogacy doesn't start with sex.  It's done via artificial insemination.  There is no sex involved.

You would have better luck asking people in pretty much any other industry, at all

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I actually did know a hooker who considered being a surrogate mother for a gay couple in San Francisco.  Now I wish I could recall why she considered it and why she ended up rejecting it.  I thought it was pretty odd for her to have considered it but she was strange in many wonderful ways.

I have not known any providers who have received (or considered) similar offers. I would not personally consider it... if I ever did consider surrogacy, I'd do so not for the money, but because I genuinely wanted to help a couple/loved one out.

Providing for a few hours or days (or even on a SB basis) is an enormously different type of proposition. If you're a surrogate mother, you assume potentially life-changing risks, responsibilities, and changes... physically, and psychologically.  

It sounds like you are just conflating the two because you believe that our bodies are "for sale?" Or that we ourselves are for sale? That, since we sell s*x for money... we should be willing to do anything? As others have said, that's just plain disturbing. And offensive

Many years ago I was offered the opportunity to become an egg donor for an amazing couple.  I was ecstatic and beyond flattered to even be considered let alone chosen!  They did offer a monetary payment but it honestly wasn't even about that. I actually agreed to it before I realized that there would be a payment. The idea of helping a family bring a child into this world via surrogacy in the aspect of donation or even being a gestational carrier is the upmost selfless gift a woman can give.

My case never panned out as the mother miraculously fell pregnant on her own right before my end of the process started but it is something I will never forget.  I would definitely be open to it again should that type of opportunity ever arise.  But that is just me.  It is not for everyone and the process for egg donation or gestational surrogacy isn't something that shouldn't be taken lightly as a lot more goes into it than meets the eye.

"a better life"??

Wow, dude. I can speak, as a currently pregnant provider who is married, with previous children, and a happy, rich, full life, dog, cats, house, etc - we are not all drug addicts sitting around waiting to be saved willing to sell out bodies for a 9-month period and give up a child in order to have a "better life".

what in the the fuck are you thinking?

Many of the women on here are in this profession because it gives them strength an independence. You raging ignorant asshat.
I still provide, safely, even pregnant, with children, good credit, and money in the bank. My job enables me to have some independence for a few days a month while traveling, or while my kid is away at school and I visit an old friend, then bring home cash and maintain an awesome quality of life that is focused on my family.

I, as well as many others, have skills or even active careers in other industries.  

There is a huge difference between selling a sexy afternoon rendezvous that is enjoyable for all, and selling your body as a baby factory, selling your motherhood, selling your ability to have sex and have fun and have independence to part with a baby after 9 fucking months.

HOW CAN YOU POSSIBLY THINK THAT ISN'T A STRETCH????

Why in the shit aren't your "friends" seeking through a surrogate agency?

Because you are just playing out some misogynist retard fantasy of saving some poor hooker by impregnating and owning her body. Saving her by turning her from whore to mother and a big pile of cash to ride into the horizon and leave her old life behind.

Get hit by a bus.

Why the fuck are they inquiring with you if you "know someone"? That's not how it works. They get a lawyer who is familiar with gestational surrogacy or find a fertility clinic. You don't just ask random people if they'll carry your baby. Gestational surrogates are NOT IN IT FOR THE MONEY. It is a factor, sure, but in the typical screening of GSs they SPECIFICALLY turn down people who are desperate for money.

There is much more to it than making sure the GS is drug free and has a clear background check. They need to pass a psychology examination.. last thing you need is to pay a woman $35-50,000 and she decides to keep your damn child.

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1. You're being ridiculous. Hookers do this for one of HUNDREDS of reasons. Me? Simply because I like fucking random strangers. I find it hot, then as you get to know these strangers you built a much more respectable relationship than most people could even fathom of having. Many of my clients have been total life savers in my time of need after I was victimized earlier this year.

2. I do smoke on a religious basis, so I cannot speak too harshly but many of the providers here are full DDFs; not even a cigarette will touch their lips. I do not drink other than socially and with clientele, nor do I participate in any other recreationally satisfying drugs.  

3. I'd think as an "active hobbyist" you wouldn't be so dismayed by the stereotypes whores face, and I SURELY didn't think you'd want to pay to have sex with the sorry pitiful individuals you THINK we are if YOU weren't just as pitiful your damn self.

I rest my case

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Nah, neither do I. Great post.

I understand that to some extent the "hobby" is a community. But some folks clearly need to put in work to cultivate their non-hobby  friendships and social intelligence. This sends off such creepster vibes.