Escorting is a job. Many people in the society do not understand that ladies in the adult entertainment industry do what they do to earn a living. They are not whores, they provide adult services for a donation. The problem is that the society has misconceptions about escorts. Escorts must be respected at their job by those who go to seek their service. And ladies who have a negative attitude towards escorting cannot make good escorts. You must love what you do to do it well. I am a hobbyist who respects escorts and I know they are providing an important adult service. It is a highly paying job because most escorts make at least 150 bucks an hour and above.
I personally enjoy what I do but if a lady does not like escorting then sorry but it is not a job like any other. Other jobs do not require you to give your body in the most intimate way known to man, take it up all holes, hide the profession from fmily and friends! For all the stated reasons, I think if a lady does not enjoy escorting, then she should not escort as it is detrimental to her mental health in the ong run. And I did not even cover the whole safety issue!
Seriously people, to say that escorting is like any other job is just another way to objectify escorts.
Great answer Serena. Like you said there is no other profession where a woman makes her body so available to a man in every way imaginable. There are many woman who do it for various reasons, like out of necessity and they may not enjoy doing it but have little choice. It can be a huge mental strain on them not just from the physical acts they "have to perform" but also on their relationships with family/friends. They can't really last in this job too long and they will eventually "burn-out" just like other jobs in the real world. Some woman are more fortunate maybe because they mostly meet nice clients and they enjoy the initmate contacts with them and they are better able to cope with the demands of this profession
I dont think he was saying it is like every other job in the way you took it. I believe he meant it as just like in every other job, escorts can hate their job too. Thats all he was saying.
The truth of the matter is that not all escorts enjoy what they do. If you actually took some time to read some reviews, you could see that's the case.
And all I'm saying is that not everyone loves their job. And escorting for some is a job. It's a medium to pay the bills and make money--nothing more, nothing less.
I'm not assigning any value to that. I'm just saying that those are the facts.
Being that I have seen more escorts than you have and that I have been doing this 20+ years, I think I can speak from a much broader experience than you can as ONE provider.
Exactly if you don't enjoy escorting don't do it. And for the services you can decide upfront and tell the hobbyists what you cannot do e.g if you cant kiss, you cant do anal etc. Escorts have choices to make, however those choices may cost you clients! And Serena personally I would date and even marry an escort for that matter.
I'm just saying that you are insane if you think that an escort is going to do this just because you reminded her of this.
Look, this is the world's oldest profession for a reason. Women have used their sexuality to get us to do things we really don't want to do since the beginning of time. If a woman can still get clients without being nice, she might just not be nice. There is always some market out there, and some guy willing to pay for sex, even if the woman is a shrew in her personality.
I'm just saying that while I agree with what you said, it's a futile discussion to talk about it.
Your best bet is to just to see the ones that do have a good attitude. Forget the ones that don't. Talking to them and even boycotting them doesn't do shit.
That is my point anyway ATTITUDE determines whether I wanna keep seeing an escort or not. It is not about paying for sex to me. That's quite narrow to say am gonna go to an escort to pay specifically for sex. I go for companionship and I get the sex. I don't wanna have sex with a gal who has a horrible attitude. In fact to me am turned off when I discover the gal's pathetic attitude.
your right I am and escort and its not a job for me its a life style. girls who don't see it that way wont make it far in this industry you have to love you life
Posted By: SerenaVincente
I personally enjoy what I do but if a lady does not like escorting then sorry but it is not a job like any other. Other jobs do not require you to give your body in the most intimate way known to man, take it up all holes, hide the profession from fmily and friends! For all the stated reasons, I think if a lady does not enjoy escorting, then she should not escort as it is detrimental to her mental health in the ong run. And I did not even cover the whole safety issue!
Seriously people, to say that escorting is like any other job is just another way to objectify escorts.
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