There was a recent thread with opinions about strip club vs other forms of R&R.  

General Board
Subj: I never understand the appeal of strip clubs
Posted: 1/1/2017 at 4:26:58 PM
By: MinaSoda

with lots of replies.  

Be that as it may, you'll be in NYC and your schedule and other commitments might limit you to strip clubs.  

In general, you can search TUSCL.net, The Ultimate Strip Club Locator.

There are many upscale gentlemen's clubs in Manhattan: Flashdancers and its sister clubs Private Eyes and NY Dolls. Scores, Lace, Hustler, and other clubs, too. The upscale "corporate" clubs offer pretty girls, expensive drinks (watch out for the VIP Room invites! The required champagne is pricey), expensive lap dances but also a modicum of safety both for you and the dancers. I think that most of these clubs offer fully nude STAGE dances (3 or 4 songs sets) (EDIT: maybe no more nude dances in clubs that sell liquor?) but the lap dances are topless only. There used to be a fourth Flashdancer sister club on the East Side with fully nude lap dances but it was closed up many years ago.  Getting extras at the corporate clubs is unlikely or will cause trouble. Maybe you can a dancer to see you after her shift, but also very iffy.

Manhattan also has some underground and floating clubs. They can be hard to find if you haven't been around or don't know someone. Probably not even worth the effort if you're just planning on a short stay.  

There are Video Stores and some with Live Nude Dancers / Models scattered around, too, mostly over on 8th Ave between 34th and 58th. The Nude Dancers are officially walled off from you by a glass panel: looky no touchy, unless you want to touchy yourself. I haven't done that in YEARS, but don't believe the signs. Your cash in the slot makes the screen go up so you can see a bikini clad model but she will want a tip to show you some more.  

You know your business, your schedule and what your plans are but I've got to ask ... wouldn't you rather arrange a nude lap dance and more behind closed doors with a reliable, well reviewed Provider?  

You know, just sayin' ...