Any time I see a provider I like to shower, shave , brush my teeth and be as clean everywhere as possible before my date. ( I have had a few girlfriends that liked a guy with facial hair or stubble. ) Since I'm into making out I strive to arrive with my face as smooth as I it can be. But sometimes I've been snubbed in the DFK department by girls that are reviewed that DFK. Again, I brush my teeth and tongue. Am a clean cut guy. Believe I'm polite and possess good manners. So ladies what's the biggest reason you usually don't like to DFK with a client ? Assuming you like to DFK. ( I've even upgraded to the ridiculously expensive Gillette Mach 5. Taken a class in shaving. Have stock in Crest Toothpaste. I aim to please ! ) Is it facial hair, bad breath or just not being into the guy ? Or maybe it's people have a different definition of Deep French Kissing than I do ? DFKing for me is serious sucking face. Not lightly touching tongues.
Nothing personal, just my opinion, ok? Your statement, saying "DFKing for me is serious sucking face" is the answer WHY you don't get any. No woman in this business want to get their face sucked by an older, strange guy who might not be attractive to her or have some serious bad teeth issues. In my personal experience, all the guys who wants to suck my face non stop during a session, are the ones NO WOMEN in real life would kiss, so the DFK is a requirement when they pay for sex. Kissing is very personal, even for a woman being paid for sex. Is our choice to do it or not based on how you are. We just kiss guys we like for some reason. A guy don't need to be super attractive - most of our clients are not - but his personality and personal hygiene - along with nice, white teeth - are the reason they get kissed and you probably don't. All the toothpaste and listerine in the world cannot mask cigarrette smoke stains, or a mouth that doesn't look good for kissing. So, take a trip to your dentist and find out if that's the problem with you. If you have good teeth, there is no need of that much toothpaste or mouthwash, right? Also, change your attitude and don't force women to kiss (oh wait a minute, get their faces sucked!). If a woman finds you and your mouth attractive enough to be kissed during a session, she will be the first one to initiate it. If she turns her head and avoid your advances, then respect her boundaries. I can suck and fuck many guys I see....but few I would never kiss for the reasons above. Their teeth are yucky! And bad mouth also is the reason many ladies to refuses DATY. Guys with bad teeth and gums arbors bacteria into their mouths and that can cause bacterial infection to our pussies. The other motive might be the facial hair! Many ladies don't like it. I personally don't like men with facial hair....unless they are young with a hip, stylish, short trimmed beard. Young guys call wear hair on their faces and look hot and attractive. So if you are an older guy with a full beard and moustache, even with nice teeth, I would not kiss you. Gosh, I stopped kissing my BF when he decided to grow a beard last year, so facial hair is totally a nono to me.
I love dfk but only if its not all dripping spit everywhere.. Some people dont swallow thier own before grabbing my face so I always ask politely ..please Noooo spit swapping Lol I'd rather play tongue hockey
Ps freshly shaved face is always more pleasant than long hair that may possibly have left overs in it : P : D
Sometimes brushing and flossing can cause a little bleeding that you might not notice. This makes you much more susceptible for the trasmission of std's via oral sex. Usually oral is a generally safer activity that FS, but if you brush right before hand, you are opening up the risk of direct access to your bloodstream.
You are better off using mouthwash immediately before a date.
very Smart Very Smart.. I asked a sex ed teacher that question se4veral years ago & she even had said it leaves a bigger risk when brushing bc everyone bleeds a little and may not see it..
A little more information. 40 years old. In good physical shape. Decent looking. Great oral hygiene. Only two surface cavities my entire life. Clean, white and straight teeth. Healthy diet. Non smoker. And, no I don't have bad breath !
I brush and floss at least a hour before I see a provider. And, if you read carefully I am clean shaven with no facial hair.
Next point. Rating someone a 7 or 8 is low ? If someone referred to me as attractive and was a hot time in bed that would put a smile on my face. Better to see a guy that list mostly 9s and 10s ? A ten is a once in a lifetime. So guys that have multiple 10s for performance ratings must be reincarnated ? I'd rate myself in the looks department a 6.5 or 7. Most guys think they are good in bed. I'd rate my performance on any given night from a 6 to 8.
Anyways, the reason I ask this question about DFKing is because a number of girls I've seen have sucked face with me. And, told me what a good kisser I was. And, then there are the girls with reviews that state DFKing and I get the snub. Maybe it's a safety issue ? I will chalk it up to YMMV.
Thanks for the constructive criticism. A soft kiss goodnight on the lips to you all.
Perspectives on DFK varies person to person. Things to consider: -Are you kissing her to rough? When kissing her, are you kissing her so hard that it caused her neck to strain from being shoved backwards...too much force being used? -Did she eat Itailian/garlic the w/i recently? -Is she suffocating when kissing you? -using to much slobber?
Bottom line....if this is happening on a regular basis the problem may be you....jus sayin
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