There was a place that moved from Park ave to 5th ave near 30th but they seemed to have moved again.  Mostly east european girls but some others as well.  Saw an older woman Pamela there.  She played submissive and let me smack her, spit all over her, pull her hair while she gave me a bj.  Good time.  It's unfortunate it's so hard to find a place like this.   Good luck and post if you find anything as I'd be interested.

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