After reading some of the things you’ve said about me,I have some questions for you.How does your wife or girlfriend look and more importantly, how does she perform? Have you ever asked yourself why that is? Perhaps you just don’t inspire her? Should I be any different? If so, do you think offering me less should inspire me more? Maybe I should be paying you for your outstanding swordsmanship?Let’s get real, fellas. As a general rule, I accept everyone who comes through my door. I have never asked someone to leave because he weighs 400 pounds or smells like the canal. And I never beg anyone to stay. I am not THAT lonely. But you, you can take one look at me and decide to stay or go back to your wife or girlfriend. Maybe you will get some for nothing.Kristina(212) 396-3963

Hi Kristina. thanks very much  for your honest and poignant point of view. It's important, at least to me to hear about a providers point of view vis-a-vi a client!. I thoroughly agree that it is insulting to  offer a provider less than what she is asking, and  I assume, a turn off to many, if not most. I must say, however, speaking for myself, that my ex wife, and now  my girlfriend  are both  stunning ladies, in looks,physically and sexually. So why do I frequent providers? because for me, variety is the spice of life, plus  I find that I learn a bit more each time I  visit, and furthermore , for the  positions that are not the "cup of tea' of  my ladyfriend (nor  my ex wife.). I do admire  your  tolerance of most who walk through your door.!

Not sure if I completely understand what you are saying but I think I agree in that I would not expect to inspire you by simply "showing up".  ANYTIME I am with a woman I want to ensure she enjoys the experience which means that I take care of myself and would not even think of starting any activity if I smelt like the canal - that is simply foul - and if that was the case you should have every right to say thank you very much but we're closed for the night!

Kristina,
I have seen you a few times already and I think you are an angel, don't know how you do ithis you are so beautiful and to deal so intimately with "any slob who walks in the door"  is hard work.

I suggest you keep track of your favorites and then "close your book" for only those and see them more frequently.  You can always have special days when you open for new clients, but at the rate you are going, please don't get angry and burn out, quit or worse--you are too beautiful to let a few bad apples ruin the bunch.

I would gently remind you that you as a “provider” exchange intimacy for compensation...you provide a service. There is no pretense (unless the guy is an utter fool) of either a romantic or emotional connection, nor is there an expectation that the customer will be judged by his physical appearance. You asked if you "should be any different"…I think the answer to that question should be obvious.

Indulge me in a theoretical question, please. If someone where to come to clean your home, would you expect the quality of the service they provided to be dependent on their assessment of your personal taste in home furnishings? Of course not...you are paying them to provide a service...and you would expect them to provide that service without regard to what they thought of you or your home. With the exception of personal hygiene, it is hard for me to imagine a reasonable grounds for you to “judge” a client by that gives you reason to provide anything less than a best effort on your part. On the assumption he is not rude, or dangerous, he has provided compensation expecting a service. Your role is called a “provider” for a reason.

If your counter argument is that you cannot equate maid services with what you do, and that I am “out of bounds” in my thinking that the guy shouldn’t have to be anything other that clean and courteous (the same expectation for ANY human interaction), then I would remind you that you are doing this for compensation, not pleasure (not saying you don’t take pleasure from it, though your reviews imply that you do not). If you have emotional / attraction / romantic criteria in mind whenever you have sex, even when it is part of your endeavors for financial gain, that might be a problem. The fact that you don’t turn any clients away may sound gracious to you, but you might do those gentlemen more good if you simply didn’t take the money of those guys who you knew were not going to “do it for you”. It would save them any possible disappointment.

Lastly, in closing, your implication (intentional or not) that the men who come to see you must have wives or girlfriends who are unattractive and / or unresponsive in bed is both a wee bit presumptive and a best, indelicate. It is the inverse of the assumption I am sure one or more of your "clients" have made that you are in your current endeavors because you are not intelligent enough to make a living any other way. Since I am confident you would take exception to that, you should try to grant your potential "companions" the same courtesy you expect.

I agree.