So you show up for thee date, and she doesn’t look like what she advertises, and appears to be in her 50s or 60s, not the 20s or 30s as advertised, what do you do?

It happened to me. This is many years ago. She had reviews and the most recent reviews said nothing about having aged far beyond what the photos showed. Her photos must have been at least 20+ years old.  Also, it was a run down, not well kept apartment. I said I didn't feel comfortable. I kind of hedged around the "not the girl in the pics" w/o being insulting. (It WAS the girl in the pics, just 20+ years older.) I must not have been the first one to say something and want to ditch. She was kind of understanding and not abusive or angry. She was disappointed but it was more of a 'Are you sure you don't want to come in and stay?' kind of stuff. I left and went with Plan B.

I mean if she obviously looked nothing like the pictures that might be an issue.. but keep in mind pro photos are a bit more edited… that’s why I use social media to post more selfies and show a bit of my personality.