Been with a provider twice and she had a great technique of bbbj and was a major part of her appeal.  In e-mailing her for a new session, was informed that she has decided for safety issues to use a cover for all services.  This is disappointing as much of the appeal has been shattered.  My initial reaction is to no longer see her.  How would you react to this news?

If she would reconsider, you might be willing to see her.   Otherwise, you wish her well in the future.

Be polite.  Simple.

If you liked her for other reasons then I would definitely continue to see her.
If cbj is a such a deal breaker for you then dump her.

Really dude.   Silly question.   sexe man right on

... and I told her that while I respect her decision I could no longer see her. She changed her mind, at least for me. Not only that she swallowed!

Emailing all of her clients you just need to respect her and you decide whether or not you want to see her. That's it.

If, so tell her the BBBJ is a deal breaker.  Be honest.

I think you are curious why she is not providing BBBJ anymore.

When a lady stops providing some services for personal reasons, guys always worry that something sinister is the motive. Which is not always the case.

Sometimes, we like to take a break from greek, FS, BBBJ etc .... and when we decide to do that, we know we will be losing business from the guys who wants these services.

So, if you enjoy her company and don't mind the CBJ, continue to see her....if BBBJ is a deal breaker for you, then move on and find another lady who provides it.

I don't think she is expecting any explanation on why you will stop seeing her, but you can say "if you ever have bbbj on your menu again, please let me know".

xoxos

Betty

It's a choice she made. You can be polite in asking her to allow for BBBJ, but you can't push it.

If that doesn't work for you, move on.

nycad

then chances are she isn't going to make an exception for you.
So either be satisfied with cbj, or move on.