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all27 16 Reviews 735 reads
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I recently set up a meeting that got cancelled at the last minute.  I'm not sure why she cancelled since I did everything the way she requested.  I tried contacting the provider, by sending several emails (which was the way we were communicating), but never got a response back.
Is this normal?  Do most providers, after cancelling, just don't respond back?  Do they consider a second meeting?

Thanks for your comments.

See this recent thread:  
"Provider changed her donation after agreeing to date.  Posted 10/18/2013 at 4:05:35 PM"

Sure it had nothing to do with you. Or she would not have booked it in the 1st place. Give her some space and email in a few days.  

Posted By: all27
I recently set up a meeting that got cancelled at the last minute.  I'm not sure why she cancelled since I did everything the way she requested.  I tried contacting the provider, by sending several emails (which was the way we were communicating), but never got a response back.  
 Is this normal?  Do most providers, after cancelling, just don't respond back?  Do they consider a second meeting?  
   
 Thanks for your comments.
-- Modified on 10/19/2013 12:04:21 PM

FarRanger337 reads

will probably happen.

Do yourself a favor and move on to someone who is more reliable.

Sometimes, shit happens; really bad shit.  Yes, you could wait to hear what the excuse for not contacting you or replying to your emails within a day or two is.  Car accident - hospitalized on pain killers for 5 days ... stuff like that can explain the lack of reply.  "My grandmother died -- again -- and I had to leave town in a hurry." may explain the cancellation but not the reason why she couldn't find 2 minutes to text or VM you an apology within a day or so.  

If she says "I overslept" it has NO bearing on her promptly replying to you with an apology.  Unless she overslept for a week.  

I think FarRanger got it right: move on

Want to see her again give her some space and try again. If you want to hold a grudge then move on.  

Posted By: all27
I recently set up a meeting that got cancelled at the last minute.  I'm not sure why she cancelled since I did everything the way she requested.  I tried contacting the provider, by sending several emails (which was the way we were communicating), but never got a response back.  
 Is this normal?  Do most providers, after cancelling, just don't respond back?  Do they consider a second meeting?  
   
 Thanks for your comments.

See what reviews say. If she does not have any pattern of this and you really want to see her, like Sindee said try again in a week and see what response if any you receive. Life happens unfortunately and some circumstances are unforeseen. The only time I had to cancel was on very short notice and I actually dropped off the donation but couldn't stay. She offset our makeup session which was greatly appreciated. Bottom line IMO is you should send her an email in a few days expressing your concern for her well being and hope she is OK. Ask her to contact you when she is available (in a no pressure way). If you get a response - hear it out and trust your judgement. If no response, time to move on.  
Good luck!

Her reviews show no pattern of this.  In fact it's the entire opposite; she seems very professional.  I'll follow your advice since I donwant to see her.  The only thing I don't quite understand is that when she cancelled, thirugh an email, she suggested to meet the next day.  So I sent her a reply but got no response anyway. Thanks anyway for your advice.

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