I've been out of the game for quite a while, so I don't have any references. Looking to get back into the game, and I'm wondering what kind of screening ladies generally require for guys without references? I completely understand and respect the need for screening, but I'll admit that the intrusiveness of a screening process may play a factor in my selection of ladies, at least in the short term before I can build up enough references to avoid screening. Thanks in advance!

will ask you more info then adult sites only oks..
 I hope you do realize that in this hobby  not just nice women and nice men but and pimps and drug dealers and criminals of bigger scale?  
And yes .. they also giving oks  to each other.

True  safe and nice ladies would ask you way more then .. sorry white list.

Be ready to share .. and thank you to all nice men  who sending
-own websites
-real names to google
- Connecting on linkedin - my for instance is Natalya Fedorovna  
-making deposits via verified paypall (  wise escort would have it separate form hobby - her paypall would not be   the hobby one )-
-sending pictures  
- and meeting for dinners at upscale places..
 it is irrelevant how many white list men has here or on DC or on P 411 .
 Nice lady would ask you more.
 You may have  zero reviews written and zero white lists and you still be able see nice women.
 The best onc

Have you contacted her about seeing her again or if she remembers you enough to be your reference?

The safety and comfort of both parties. A provider who is professional will screen you in the most discreet way possible in order to feel at ease with you. Keep in mind that we have no interest on creating problems for you in the future, we are just trying to avoid problem to ourselves.

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We've all been worried about our true identities being revealed. As the others have stated it is for the ladies safety which is undeniably important. Several options to get started are P411 which a lot of ladies use. You should also try attending a Meet-n-Greet. Also you should focus on a well-reviewed, well-respected lady as this is much safer than using a Backpage or random provider. I think getting the first 1 or 2 appointments will be the "toughest" but after these you can use these as references and "Whitelists". It will only get easier and easier.

Wow. Can't believe Shayla is still around, she was up there in years when I saw her over a decade ago. Alas, I'm in NY now, not LA, so seeing her again isn't an option. I can't imagine she'd remember me all these years later.

Thanks, all, for the responses. Just to be clear, I'm not afraid of, or seeking to avoid, screening. I completely understand the need for safety for all involved. But the hobby is much different in this respect from when I first started out over a decade ago, so I was just looking for the types of information I might be asked to provide (LinkedIn, etc.). Thanks again.

established employment history  
 I have been offered  screening with just one or two connections or fresh created  Linked in accounti..
 Of course THAT is not screening in any way.
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 Here  you are absolutely correct ..
However  I still preffer see gentlemen form Linked i with 500+ connections  
 - Anyone welcome to connect to me there as well  
I have over 100 connections and all are very safe and nice men and women.
It is what counts .
 And only ones- I felt a need ask about  gentlemen from Linkedin  escorts whom he saw before - Only once I felt as . HHmmm.. he wants just use my time  and is not a gentleman .
 But in such case  - If woman has such feelings about  him - no escorts oks nor any deposits, not anyone will make me see him.

It is all combination of intuitions and applied knowledge and  tolls we have, as yes Linkedin, TER , P $11 date check..
 
Thanks  
 Pls Take my references to Linked not as absolute but just my preferable choice o screening - as you may see form my reviews - gentlemen whom I see as for now 3+ years - still do not have one single white list. And I would not add them there because they never asked nor need it .
 The key  is ( as to me ) - keep all options open  and on Linked in and here and to meet the most fun men and women( not to put all egss on one basket hahhaa.. gentlemen also should not put their eggs .. you know just to one nest : Keep  your options open and try women from many backgrounds many countries  many cultures..
It calls diversity and we all know well how diversity improves synergy we can create Wind k wink ..:
Kisses to all  

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P.S  
 sooo Valentine is over ... my date is back to his .. state and his wife and I am alone on West Side on Columbus circle .. for a while .. then also be back to my family and everyday life ..
   
But I any time be able just to jump to plane or car and fly . fly fly .. Love this feeling of freedom and excitement ..  
 and being GORGEOUS .. when walking on the street have all eyes on  you . what kind woman would not like it ??!!!
 What ind man would not want THIS kind woman .. so .. Many many many clubs  in NYC .. it was fun .. Valentine .. may be some will share how it was for  them ??
What gentlemen did for their significant others ?? or what their SO did for you?
 Share . if you wish or P or here .. be fun to read Bored in hotel now will go to bar now. Will dress super sexy and will go ..
 See you  ..  
Kissess again!!

I started on TER around the same time as you in LA.  I remember some of those ladies you reviewed, which is making me feel old. LOL  

 Those were the wild wild west time for us back then.  I kinda miss those days but 12 years later, but I have meet some  phenomenal ladies in the mean time, I would not want to go back to those days.   Change is a good thing.  

Screening will be a lot different and you might not be able to see who you want but that is how it is now. Just keep trying, be honest and some nice lady will help you out.

Good Luc

the  best perfect answer said so well!!!

awesome answer!!