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Koolmwa 10 Reviews 610 reads
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For me safety is very fundamental. I always wanna ensure the provider is safe during and after the date. Even when they don't have a car I will call the taxi for them, & call them when they reach their destination to make sure they are safe.

Pavliena1074 reads

I have booking  and he is on DATE check Highly recommended with 10 + recommendations and .. yes he did send me  emails form email he used on DC- I never take just   ID .. so all seems  was ok .. he did call me last eve we chatted .. well and agreed .. an today I did  dial his phone and got message something like that  
" Phone is not in service and reported as trouble "
 what it  can be ???
 I  looking looking at his date check all is perfect ..  emails address he used  to talk to me is registered with date check and   ladies recommended  

 what  a starnge message  can  mean ?? when  such message is played ?? I posting question not just for ladies  but and for gentlemen as well becuase your male mind always  hmm..  more logical when female's mind  not so emotional and  you just may know more  sometime .. ha ha ha just sometime ::)
Kisssess
  or pm or post here

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Pavliena706 reads

a difference :)
 or give nice advice
 they generally are mor logical and  more informed .. and in  area of the hobby I  am same - I not out them on opposite side .. they can be part of my decision making process .. as matter of the fact  I always better take men advice  then women .. even in own area of work .  

 
 we women ..   can not do all ourselves .. sorry girls ...  

 you know I value their opinions as well  
 as well as ladies  
Thanks

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JordanJewels659 reads

Did you try contacting him by email or calling using another phone. Maybe there is something wrong with your phone

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Pavliena704 reads

I was suspicions about  nothing ...    

So I guess we do not have to worry if there 10 + Date checks ...

 thanks everybody

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kendalllynn700 reads

I would contact some of the girls and ask if they would see hm again . Many times if a guy submits a request for an ok on DC the girl is reluctant to say he was awful .She may say so privately though . Kendall Lynn

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LovetoDaty547 reads

I know there is a "highly recommend" and "recommend"that providers can indicate but  I thought there was also something just below that like a "conditional" or "with reservations"? Just my guess, as I obviously can not see my recommendations the same way providers see on my Date-check profile.

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kendalllynn492 reads

If a guy happens to be amazing on the first date but gets weird on the second date , which has happened , you can not go back and change it .Also the guys tend to find out their oks . I have to  assume another provider tells them .  
So if you first gave a great reference but later decided on later dates he is nuts that can't be changed or idk how to change it .
Anyone can act nice for an hr or 2 get request your approval . Let's say for a moment that then maybe you do not feel comfortable telling ladies he is awesome as they base their decisions on this info clearly . I guess I am not that comfortable with the system is all. Most guys i have spoken to from there know what their recommendations look like and who gave them .They regularly say i am highly recommended , so how do they know that ? The system is flawed in the rare case of a nutty guy which is scary to me . Kendall Lynn

Posted By: LovetoDaty
I know there is a "highly recommend" and "recommend"that providers can indicate but  I thought there was also something just below that like a "conditional" or "with reservations"? Just my guess, as I obviously can not see my recommendations the same way providers see on my Date-check profile.

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LovetoDaty563 reads

I'm sure the more OKs he has the more comfortable you are seeing him. If he has say only 1 or 2 that doesn't provide as much protection as if he had like 10 great OKs.
Why would a guy make nice to 10 ladies and then turn into a "creeper?" I guess anything is possible.
But it would be good if DC allowed you to go back and make changes and/or add comments. Maybe he doesn't become "nutty" the second time but he may do something e.g. like try to haggle on price or want extra time and you may just want to caution other providers about that.

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kendalllynn491 reads

He had highly recommend on all of them .He was odd on every second and subsequent date with all of the ladies .They all will not see him again yet his profile looks awesome . He is not within normal range on second and third dates . At ALL . And it wasn't money related at all .So i feel it is important there to contact the providers and see if they Still feel that way .It is sad but true. . Kendall Lynn

Posted By: LovetoDaty
I'm sure the more OKs he has the more comfortable you are seeing him. If he has say only 1 or 2 that doesn't provide as much protection as if he had like 10 great OKs.  
 Why would a guy make nice to 10 ladies and then turn into a "creeper?" I guess anything is possible.  
 But it would be good if DC allowed you to go back and make changes and/or add comments. Maybe he doesn't become "nutty" the second time but he may do something e.g. like try to haggle on price or want extra time and you may just want to caution other providers about that.

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LovetoDaty496 reads

It sounds like he has some serious issues with providers (or women in general) and definitely needs some help.
Hopefully he is just an isolated incident - but still a scary situation. Even with extra screening and contacting his previous dates wouldn't really help much because all his 1st time dates would say he is "OK". You'd have to be able to contact his 2nd time dates specifically to learn how bad he is.
Take care and stay safe :-)
   

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 He had highly recommend on all of them .He was odd on every second and subsequent date with all of the ladies .They all will not see him again yet his profile looks awesome . He is not within normal range on second and third dates . At ALL . And it wasn't money related at all .So i feel it is important there to contact the providers and see if they Still feel that way .It is sad but true. . Kendall Lynn  
Posted By: LovetoDaty
I'm sure the more OKs he has the more comfortable you are seeing him. If he has say only 1 or 2 that doesn't provide as much protection as if he had like 10 great OKs.  
  Why would a guy make nice to 10 ladies and then turn into a "creeper?" I guess anything is possible.  
  But it would be good if DC allowed you to go back and make changes and/or add comments. Maybe he doesn't become "nutty" the second time but he may do something e.g. like try to haggle on price or want extra time and you may just want to caution other providers about that.

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fallonkelly638 reads

Was super highly reviewed on DC.  Over 20 Highly recommended and he behaved horribly and attemped to do ever unsafe practice you could think of.  I wanted away from him so bad, I got dressed and left him in my hotel room.  You can contact DC and tell them what happened and they will change the ok to not ok.  At least that is my experience.

Posted By: LovetoDaty
I'm sure the more OKs he has the more comfortable you are seeing him. If he has say only 1 or 2 that doesn't provide as much protection as if he had like 10 great OKs.  
 Why would a guy make nice to 10 ladies and then turn into a "creeper?" I guess anything is possible.  
 But it would be good if DC allowed you to go back and make changes and/or add comments. Maybe he doesn't become "nutty" the second time but he may do something e.g. like try to haggle on price or want extra time and you may just want to caution other providers about that.

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LovetoDaty569 reads

Its good that at least DC did that so maybe others wont have to go through the same unfortunate experience that you did. But what if there's another guy like that out there- how can something like that be prevented in the future? How do you screen to protect yourself from that? :-(  

Posted By: fallonkelly
Was super highly reviewed on DC.  Over 20 Highly recommended and he behaved horribly and attemped to do ever unsafe practice you could think of.  I wanted away from him so bad, I got dressed and left him in my hotel room.  You can contact DC and tell them what happened and they will change the ok to not ok.  At least that is my experience.

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fallonkelly534 reads

I wish I knew the answer to that question.

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Pavliena657 reads

Pm  me .. :)) I just now have to ran .. will  answer privately  in short - it si  two phone # on same machine .. just it is not google and you can  choose messages which you want to be played when you  wish ..

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whitelightening510 reads

Maybe his carrier is having trouble or he is an area with no service and you misunderstood the message you received.
Today was the hacker organization "Anonymous" claiming to destroy or interrupt cell phone service, bank and brokerage accounts.

Posted By: Serafima
Pm  me .. :)) I just now have to ran .. will  answer privately  in short - it si  two phone # on same machine .. just it is not google and you can  choose messages which you want to be played when you  wish ..

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melnotinhell633 reads

It could be anything, however so many people use Google phones to mask their own ones nowadays. It is actually the norm. Did you call the phone company and ask>try that and good luck. Phones are all out of wack nowadays. Good to be safe though!

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Koolmwa611 reads

For me safety is very fundamental. I always wanna ensure the provider is safe during and after the date. Even when they don't have a car I will call the taxi for them, & call them when they reach their destination to make sure they are safe.

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