Dear Kim,
First,your provider most certainly did have her period. I don't care what she told you she is protecting herself. It was nothing that I did that promoted this. There was blood all over the sheets and she even wiped it with a washcloth to show me.
I am not complaining about the provider herself. She was a wonderful girl and I liked her very much. This does not preclude the fact that she had her period and you and I should have been made aware of the situation. To schedule a session without declaring all the pertinent facts is deceitful. You can't possibly think that this helped to enhance the experience.
Regarding the issue of addressing the situation, I did try to discuss it. That is the reason I called you. It was you who called my complaint weird and hung up on me stating I should talk to the provider about it. I don't want to talk to the provider, it was you I wanted to discuss it with since you are in charge. If I get unsatisfactory service at a restaurant I don't want to talk to the waiter I want to talk to the owner and discuss it with him. As far a leaving messages on my phone, I went back to work afterwards and my phone is not with me at work.
I am not looking to make a mountain out of a mole hill. I am sure that you are a very nice person and as I said the provider was also a doll. BUT....
I just think that you could have defused the situation very easily if you took the time to listen to me and showed some sincere concern. Unfortunately you didn't and that is where the problem lies.
As a reader of past postings and complaints about Kim and BDJ, I was simply an interested observer.Now it has hit home, and I can see why so many posters have had complaints about the way Kim handles or should I say doesn't handle problems that arise.
I made an appt. with Kim to meet with one of the providers. When I got there I found out midway thru the rendezvous that the girl had her period and was bleeding all over the bed and me. Needless to say this put the kabash on the session.
I called Kim to complain about the situation and she seemed astounded that I would call about this. She put me on hold saying what a "weird call" this was, and then after being on hold for 5 minutes she got back on the phone without any attempt at apologizing for the situation or offering a solution. As other writers have complained she showed no concern about the fact that they screwed up and had a very unhappy customer. She simply stated that I should talk to the provider about it. What good would it do to talk to the provider when everything goes thru Kim. It should be her responsibility to make sure certain policies are followed and to enforce them. I can't screen the girls for situations like this.
Now I can understand the frustration that others have encountered with this agency.
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This matter has been resolved and everything is fine.Please read Rocketmans post also below on the bottom of this subject.
We had a very nice conversation earlier today.
Thank you to all the nice guys who posted here on the board that are happy with all the great girls of BDJ!
To the very few that are not, you cannot please everyone but we in fact please thousands across the USA that just love us!
P.S... There is a great book out there that I pick up every so often that is just amazing, it is called THE FOUR AGREEMENTS By Louis Miguel Ruiz. In this book there is a section that says " Don't take anything personally". It is such a powerful, amazing message but not always do myself or many other people apply the principles to heart.I guess what I am saying is that nothing anyone does or says should be taken so seriously that is should affect a person soul in the process.I have a protective nature about myself for the people I love and care for that is very intense but I take it personally also, like it's an injury to myself also.I guess I am a real New Yorker at heart.
There is also another section in the book " always do your best" that is what I strive to do and to get to the next level is what it is all about, in this business and personally.
Lots of lust!
Kimberly Taylor
-- Modified on 2/26/2004 5:37:34 PM
kim called me to see if i had a problem with the girl you had seen and i told her no there was no problem she definitley did not have her period i had the appt before yours and she was great and very accomadating and ispent plenty of time there to know if she was bleeding and there was no smell or anything to even give me a hint of her period comming on ive seen quite a few bdj girls and they have always been very well kept and clean never having a problerm like this as far as the phone goes its a a very busy agency and theyre human people have bad days but kim has always been very courteious and helpful to me. she always calls me back and im a little bit of a pain in the ass because im always trying see karissa the true jewl of bdj even though all her girls are great. maybe if people dont stick things that dont belong in certain places maybe theres no bleeding just my 2 cents
I'm a bit confused on this one. I can only assume that all the information that you have about the session came from your girl. Do you believe that he had such a great time and stayed over the hour with your girl and for no apparent reason decided to call you to complain? This doesn’t make any sense. I think your girl may be stretching the truth on this one to you. What it comes down to is that you have an unsatisfied customer. Your way of dealing with this is by threatening to post the girl’s version of what happened during the session? Now, is that fair? Do you think she's going to tell you the God's honest truth? I don't think so. Let’s remember that you always have 2 sides to a story. Somewhere in between is what really took place. With all of that in mind, I think you need to do something to compensate him for his bad session. In my opinion, I think that you should have at least offered to give him a free session with another girl of his choice. He is the customer and he is unsatisfied, and you need to do something that will once again make him a satisfied customer.
I had planned on calling your service to visit Elizabeth, but if this is the way that you run your business then I would much rather spend my money elsewhere.
EG,
I completley understand where you are coming from but this girl is a true and dear friend of mine who is not a liar and is a top notch provider with nothing but great feedback and I felt it was important that both of them speak with each other before I took care of the issue myself.Remember he had a little over an hour with her and said great things to her during and on his way out of the appointment.It's not a usual situation.
As it says in my the last 2 paragraphs he never answered his phone once and turned his V/M.How do you take care of an isssue when the person does not answer his phone?
Thanks for posting!
Kim
-- Modified on 2/26/2004 6:18:17 AM
It has been with great amusement that I have witnessed the down fall of your agency over the last few months. This latest incident is just one of many in a long slow spiral down.
You threatened this guy with publishing his request's. You threatened me last year that you would accuse me a forcing one of your girls, because I had a complaint.
Kim, you started with a great idea, and you have many loyal people who like you up here. I don't know if it is greed arrogance, or just plan apathy, or all of the above, that as caused your down fall.
What ever the reason your 15 minutes is up.
RocketMan2, after reading your post and Kim's (rambling) response, I don't think I'll ever use BDJ. Sorry you had to deal with this.
i find it funny thats neither have you no reviews and your slamming a good reliable agency humm maybe your the same person why dont you changeyour alias again
I have used BDJ twice (hence my name) amyway I used Brynn the first and had a wonderfull time and the second time I had Karina
I was a little disapointed in her session being she seemed to have a cold at the time, I did not complaine for everyone is human. Just wanted to let you know my experiance with BDJ
YMMV with everything, I will use them again
If the BDJ woman was having her period it should have been disclosed to the client prior to the appointment. If the client is not happy with the session because the woman was having her period then he should be refunded for the session. Notably, in the BDJ response she never denied that the woman was having her period. That is the central aspect of the complaint. But to then threaten the client is too low life to even comment about.
She did not have her period.
kim i think its time to tell what this freak did to the girl or have her tell her side of the story like said i had appt before him and everything is fine its time to out this freak and warn the other girls about him and his demented tools of pleasure. he was so obvious trying to cover for himself that he made her bleed and also try to get comp the cheap sick fuck
I too think the girl should come forward to expose this freak for what he is. We all realize that this is a dangerous business
and we should rid our selve of potential people that can do a lot of harm to others. I personally will try to get his IP address and will post it on this site with any other info I can get.
Why don't you learn how to read and write English?
Dear Kim,
First,your provider most certainly did have her period. I don't care what she told you she is protecting herself. It was nothing that I did that promoted this. There was blood all over the sheets and she even wiped it with a washcloth to show me.
I am not complaining about the provider herself. She was a wonderful girl and I liked her very much. This does not preclude the fact that she had her period and you and I should have been made aware of the situation. To schedule a session without declaring all the pertinent facts is deceitful. You can't possibly think that this helped to enhance the experience.
Regarding the issue of addressing the situation, I did try to discuss it. That is the reason I called you. It was you who called my complaint weird and hung up on me stating I should talk to the provider about it. I don't want to talk to the provider, it was you I wanted to discuss it with since you are in charge. If I get unsatisfactory service at a restaurant I don't want to talk to the waiter I want to talk to the owner and discuss it with him. As far a leaving messages on my phone, I went back to work afterwards and my phone is not with me at work.
I am not looking to make a mountain out of a mole hill. I am sure that you are a very nice person and as I said the provider was also a doll. BUT....
I just think that you could have defused the situation very easily if you took the time to listen to me and showed some sincere concern. Unfortunately you didn't and that is where the problem lies.
I've used the service twice--both times with Jordan--and haven't had any problems. In fact, she's the best provider I've ever seen. I can only hope I continue to have good luck with them, and am sorry to hear if others have had problems.
Another reason not to bother with agencies.
Who needs this aggravation ?
I just as soon stick with the nice, well reviewed indies.
No fuss, no muss (no pun intended), less expensive and if you do your homework, usually a good time.
Well I hate to break up the party but the party's over. Go home. The lovely Kim and I had a heart to heart talk and cleared the air over this "dispute". I will not go into details as that is between Kim and me and I don't kiss and tell. But I will say, however, that it was a courteous and civilized discussion between two (consenting) adults. She was a pleasure to deal with and I am glad that we had the opportunity to speak. For me personally, this sheds a new light on Kim and BDJ.
The one thing that bothers me is how multiple outsiders who responded to this subject had the tendency to jump to some very inappropriate conclusions.For one I am not posting under two names as some other poster concluded. I have no idea who the other person is. I also did not under any circumstances do anything that was inappropriate with the provider in question. She was treated with the utmost respect and as I said in an earlier post was a lovely gal who I had a good time with.
They also did not pay attention to the specifics of what I was saying because their response often made no sense. I think it is fair to say that unless you have all the facts you should refrain from adding fuel to the fire.
Once again I am glad that Kim and I were able to talk about both sides of the story and I look forward to dealing with her in the future.
I'm glad everything worked out. As I said on an earlier thread, I have found BDJ to be all that I want them to be and then some.
All of my dates have been great and when I did have an instance of being held up for one... it was quickly resolved by Kim.
She is definitely one gal you can talk to and I believe she knows what us hobbyiest want...and that's gorgeous GFE gals that will not kill your wallet.
I was fortunate enough to see Kim on several occasions before she left for FL. She was magnificent and wonderful (besides being drop-dead gorgeous). I would have been shocked to hear that she is/was anything but great. IMHO.
Kim,
Its good to see that you guys were able to work things out. Although we don't know what was done to compensate him, he does seem more than satisfied with how you handled the situation. I also want to apoligize for my prior post as I jumped down your neck wihout having all the facts about the situation. Based on how you resolved this matter I will say that I look foward to dealing with you and your agency in the future.
I did not take it personally what you had posted since you have never met me in person 
You were curious and had an opinion on the matter.You sound like a really nice person.
thanks again 
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KT