Hey peeps.

 I have been a member for the last 15 years or so. It used to be the case, before TER went down a few years ago, that members would enjoy the community of sharing thoughts and information via PM. I loved it.  
Nowadays, most of my PM inquiries go unanswered.. Most recently, I asked 2 separate Members about one girl: one responded "omg, msg her", the other said "omg, no comments". What is up with this new breed? OMG, ha

Thanks,
Monk

Most may not have VIP and cant respond to PMs. Some may have gotten a bunch of PMs and dont want to keep responding. I had a guy PM me multiple times, basically wanted me to hold his hand in trying to set something up for him I got tired of it and just stopped responding to him

But you know this my friend. lol.
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Yes, I agree, the percent who respond has gotten less and less. I think a big part of that is the rising cost, so many are playing less, and that there are also less members here since Covid and Sesta Fosta. And the rise in bot/fake accounts is a factor, I am certain. Frustrating for sure.

I've had the same happen, on both ends.  I have messaged a couple of times and had no reply. I know they could see the messages bc the mail icon was on their profile.  I have also had someone who doesn't post reviews asking for things. I don't remember my exact reply but it was something like "you should read my reviews and post your own also".

What surprises me is that this group doesn't seem to understand that PMing one another is the best way to vet a gal. You can't rely strictly on reviews; guys are often a bit too generous with their accolades and it helps to flush out fakes.  
Oh well. So it goes.

The game has changed a lot. It seems back when I started,  my biggest concern was trusting an inflated review or a provider using outdated photos or worse, bait & switch.  I started to notice more guys not wanting to post negative reviews to not hurt the gals reputation and even worse, not sharing safety / risk concerns.  

Now we live in an era where the game isn’t balanced at all.  

Many providers want unreasonable deposits, use bogus screening methods in the name of safety. Some have price points and not the review history to support. Remember photoshop, no AI is used to enhance photos. Smh.The days of sharing your handle on credible reviews sites and a list of providers you recently seen are long gone. They demand enough information to blackmail the hell out of you in an era where your personal data is sacred.  

There has always been simps and white knights. It’s just exacerbated by a new generation who didn’t come up within the community many of us did.

It's definitely hit or miss and I have had crickets but also traded good honest information. Monk - your last review says 2016, that may influence why someone chooses not to to respond. Just saying ... it's good when there's reciprocation and it doesn't seem like you have much to offer.

I've gotten several PMs from guys with no review history or post history, asking questions about girls I've reviewed. Many times the questions are answered already in my review so it seems like mass copy paste for someone too lazy to read. I tell them to contribute before I'll give them any more info. I think my reviews are detailed enough already. At least one of them was clearly a stalker trying to figure out incall details.

For every 1 PM from a contributing member I get like 10 from non contributing members. I can only imagine the ratio for guys who write more frequent reviews in busier cities, and maybe that's why guys are less likely to want to help.