What is the appropriate way to bring up the subject of a second pop?  As a general matter, I usually do not discuss the particulars of services offered and just see what develops (certainly with guidance from TER reviews).  Also, I'm usually one who likes to take his time and will often fill a one hour session with only one pop.  However, sometimes things come to a quicker conclusion.  Then what?  I certainly feel awkward and I'm not sure what to do if the provider doesn't suggest a second round.  I didn't ask the question up front, is it appropriate to bring it up now?

I have had a few experiences of this sort where I tried to make a move to initiate round 2.  However, my success rate has not been good.  In one case I started DATY after the first round which was gladly accepted but no reciprocal move followed.  I left disappointed.  I recently had an experience where round 1 was over in about 30 minutes.  Basically, after a little chit chat, that was it for the session.

I blame myself but wondered how others approach the subject.

If you paid for an hour you should expect to have as many pops as you can manage in that hour.  You are not paying per pop. I can understand that pointing this out during an appointment isn't ideal so I can only suggest that careful research via reviews will point you in the direction of providers who allow multiple pops.

That is why the reviews are so important. I canceled an appointment with Linda of Sweeties because I saw that she is a one pop provider, aka OPP.

I strongly feel that if a guy can Pop, the provider should let him. We're there for a good time and pay a lot $$$$ for the release.

But, Lawyer, if that is the main problem you're facing, you have to search under "multip. pops" on the TER search engine. Then work your way back from there.

the providers because they are the one's that are most often confused by this concept...especially agencies.

your a Grandpa...

Badabing bing bing!

Some ladies ads say $$$/hour....that should be based on time and nothing else....but many times, the ladies simply stop and get showered or dressed even though only 1/2 hour has elapsed....that should not happen

hour's rendezvous and saving the pop for the end of the session always leaving a bit of time for 'after-pop' snuggling or chit-chat or whatever fits. Usually, the providers I have seen ask me outright how many times I'd like to go and I steer the direction of the session towards the one-pop finale routine.
But Carrie's answer is the best...you're paying for the time, not the number of pops...keep doing your research to maximize your return!

Much more enjoyable than worrying about POPS....

and they're off!

Cheers!

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Thanks Carrie and Ex my attitude is the same as yours.  I usually do my research and in most cases the reviews will indicate multiple pops.  I guess that is why I have been surprised on a few occassions when my advances in that direction yielded no positive result or the provider doesn't take the initiative.  On the latter aspect I'm not sure the provider is supposed to take the initiative.

So Carrie and others.  Do I need to set the table at the beginning of the session?  Do I ask after the first pop if there is clearly enough time left or just assume that a second pop is there for the taking (I never like to assume anything however when the consent of both parties is required)?

Just saw the video and those are some of the loveliest "mountains" I've ever wanted to climb.

WINK!

Cheers!

http://www.niehs.nih.gov/kids/lyrics/climbev.htm

ask rather than walk away disappointed and mark her down in the reviews.

providers are not mind readers.

lawyer, I really don't know, I wish I could help more on this.

I understand you can't really discuss this in detail before an appointment.  Also, you can't go ahead and assume another pop is an option for exactly the reason you suggest.  Yes, you could say what you'd like at the beginning of the appointment, but then if she says 'one pop only' where does that leave you?  At least you would where you stand but it might be a turn off for the session.

Don't always wait for the provider to take the initiative...men can be confusing creatures, you have recovery time and all sort of other things that women can't always work out.  So, if you take the initiative then that's great!

seconds, thirds and...fourths

I think once you're naked and making out, you can tell the provider what you expect from her. I'm my case, I'm the one asking the questions....once we're down doing the dirty, I always ask how many cups he wants (or can brew), if he likes his balls licked, if he gets too sensitive after or not and so on...then, knowing a bit about him,  I pace myself during the session to acommodate his wishes. If a guy is multiple, I try to make him do as many times possible...if he's one shot kind of guy...then I keep him him the edge for the whole session until the grand finale ~~~~Communication is one of the keys for a great session.

depends on the girl. SOme are money grubbers and will only do one pop. If you do more than one just give her a nice tip.

Poppy is something that I can do a lot if given enough time. ; )

This is part of the reason that I wish people would treat me more like a hot Mistress-with-no-strings. I mean, of course you can just ask... but that is kind of abrupt.

Or you could start kissing and caressing and whisper it hotly... that's muuuuuuuuuch sexier.... just like you would with a girlfriend.  This is not about pleasing HER per se... it's about making it sexier for both of you.  

I cannot imagine what possessed those ladies who didn't respond to your advances... UNLESS they were concerned you'd run way over time. We do have to face facts in terms of our schedule... if it takes you a full 30 minutes for the first time, the second time usually takes LONGER, not shorter, and it may or may not happen.  Then you wind up both feeling pressured by time constraints which takes a lot of the fun out of it.

I would suggest either moving the first one up a bit so you have more time for a second go, or just having a more slooooooooooow, sultry, build up for your one REALLY GOOD one, if you're determined to only stay for an hour.  In my sessions I try to guide the gentlemen through the time, but the truth is that each of you are different and each session is different, so I never can tell what will happen. Plus some of you WANT multiple, some don't, some can't!  Communication is definitely part of the key here. I'm virtually positive that no reputable lady wants you to leave feeling disappointed!!!!

*smooch*
Tamara

I am for the experience not the pop.  The more pops the better!  I'm going to try to get all I can!!