When you visit a provider in her place of residence I don't believe it's realistic to expect anonymity. Some ladies in the past have not been vigilant about verifying with "arresting" and sometimes terrifying or fatal consequences. IN MY OPINION, for every 1 client that will not allow himself to be verified there are 2 others that will. For my health and well-being I'm more than happy to let the 1 go. A gentlemen's willingness to co-operate is the first indication that he will be a pleasure to see. The gentlemen that are arguementative concerning ID, are usually the ones that are problematic.

If you don't want to verify every time you would like to make an appointment just verify at one agency or house that doesn't keep personal info but gives you a password or pass number. Or get a short stay hotel and enjoy an outcall.

Re:Real Names?

A HornyEsq? So I guess you do pro-bono work? Perhaps you like to submit a lot of briefs?

If I were a man, absolutely never!  You never know who might be saving this and who might later be caught in a high-profile scene.....  You can always find a highly rated provider who might be more tolerant and forigiving for your need to remain private.  Just keep trying til you find the right one.

Many will be skeptical unless you provide a little something about who you are...... general info at first is fine.  If we need more, we'll let you know!

there are certain things you can do, never discuss $ or services with the new person until you have them in your mouth. If you are leary of someone ask them to take a shower, get them completely naked and immediately put their penis in your mouth even if it's for a second.

Now can you still get taken in? Sure, but when my lawyer starts asking me about the officers penis, was it circumsised, how long was it, did he have a mole on either side, I'm sure they'd much rather just drop it than go through the embarrassment of proof that their officers are allowing themselves to recieve oral sex a crime as far as they say, and if you can describe it to a Tee then you also have a sexual harassment case againt le since they are not allowed to take advantage of this situation, the chances of a scanal far out weigh a simple soliciting collar.  Just be smart enough to tell the arrestting officer what the cops penis looks like and that you have a lawyer and will do a sexal harassment suit if arrested. Chances are they won't even take a chance and take you in.

Another thing NEVER hand $ to a girl or let her know your putting the $ down or geture to it, she will know its there , there is no need for discussion that your placing it down, if you do that I'll tell you I have no idea what that is, and hope you get the hint, then I make sure your penis is in my mouth asap.

My reg clients I get at the end simply because I trust them but also thats another goodidea to get paid afterwards if you can trust the new client and are secure he is not going to pull a fast one. I have never (knock on wood had this problem ever) Once I forgot to get paid and he called me 20 mins later, I had totally forgot, he riminded me that he forgot to pay, so he dropped it off the following week at a convienient mutual friends house in NYC. I have had 2 guys leave and come back immediately because we both forgot. I've never had someone stiff me, or "Theft of services" which would really stand up in court (sarscam)

If you didnt get $ for the services then it is not an exchange for sex and $. Someone with a law degree either please correct me or perhaps enlighten us if in fact what I say is true, not to mention other things would be useful to know. Hope this helped a bit.

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