At best, it's a personal message.

Let's all exercise a little common sense here! (Miss you Emma!

The purpose of the provider posting guidelines is to prevent providers from trying to keep their link at the top of the page. What was the purpose of this post other than that?

Providers/hobbyists - You can reply to an existing thread with just about anything as long as you stay on topic. However, I look very closely at new threads. I sometimes cut people some slack if they find a clever way to get back to the top of the page (a joke, an interesting link or so on.) This was a pretty transparant attempt to circumvent the posting guidelines.

thirsty

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'm not advertising I'm off in NYC till 4/9....chill

Then send a message like this as a PM.

She does not have her tour dates in any of her posts. She may be promoting herself, but that is what TER is all about. The board gives providers a chance to let us know more about them through their posts. I enjoy reading her posts. Lawyer, I can understand where you are coming from, but I think you are wasteing time on something that is not needed. Posts like yours will only stop providers from participating in our conversations. As much as I enjoy reading what other hobbyists have to say I also enjoy reading what providers have to say. Miki is one of the few providers who particiaptes here on a regular basis. I can only hope that other providers will see that and also join in some of our conversations.

Thanks EB,this girl just wants to have fun....its not always about $$$...if it were I'd be an Investment Banker

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I wish the ladies would post more.  Gives you a sense of their personality.  And makes things more interesting.

99% of the lawyers are giving the other ones a bad name.

I appreciate your intelligent, well thought out response to the issue I raised, rather than the personal attacks used as a response by others.  I'm glad you recognize that self promotion does not require a post with tour dates.  And perhaps I am wasting my time where it is not needed.  I agree with your position that input from Providers is a positive for this discussion board.  Thirsty recently began a thread about staying beyond the appointment time and the providers' responses certainly added greatly to that discussion.

There has been much written lately about the need to "clean up this board" and get it back to its intended purpose.  In my humble opinion some providers take advantage of the board to simply put themselves in front of the hobbiests as much as possible, now with a picture included in every post.  If the post is to express an opinion, thought or point of view about a legitimate topic in a thread or to raise a new issue, that is great.  However when a serious topic is under discussion (such as a thread raised a couple of days ago by MasterMaster about the need for Thirsty to control the board), somehow a provider managed to use the opportunity to post new pictures of herself and that is not appropriate, again in my opinion.  I read the thoughts in that thread with interest and felt insulted when I had to work my way through one provider's "self-promotion.'

Again, I appreciate your reasoned response to my opinion rather than a personal attack.

I noticed

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You know how kids like to show off their favorite new skateboarding tricks when they hang out? Well, what do you think us ladies do when we spend time together…hmmmm?

The reason why other women such as myself have such a good time together is because we love what we do, and we crave those moments when we can share our thoughts our hearts and bodies with each other. This is a tough business, and apart from fielding reference requests or venting a bit on the ladies board, we rarely get time to hang out and relax. This life is full of isolation, only a few people may know what we do, and for the most part we shield them from details because we care to keep those friendships intact.

But hey, when it is fun in the biz, it really is phenomenal. We love to give pleasure to each other and to...*cough*...show off our skills so to speak. (I have some serious catching up to do to perfect these MILF's BBBJCIM) The fact is that I was less than a dozen blocks from a provider last night, and when she called me to come over and join her for fun with her friends, I was more than willing because to see a woman older than myself who loves to let me make her cum so hard she can't see straight . This WILL make me jog over in my stilettos in the raging snow ASAP. This gives me a serious hard on because hey, I turned 34 and if it gets better and better, I am going to have a blast later on.

It is clear that lawyer12053 is firing personal attacks, his persistence alone to each of her posts speaks volumes, and is probably another jealous guy up late at night, because most guys really don't mind if some local providers have a little erotic fornication amongst them selves and chat about it in the morning on the boards.  But hey, I am new to NYC....but not wet behind the ears just down below.

NYC has some of the hottest bi women. If any of you guys want to pleasure your ATF, anytime, I swear you will be my best friend!

It was 2 am I was tipsy and just finished having an amazing time ...not everything I post is calculated self promotion,really... I just like to have fun,I will contain my exuberant nature and behave....promise

I'm getting a little tired of all the pontificating.  If any hobbyist wants to complain about self-promotion....to be fair, they should see the provider they are complaining about and then at least they would understand why so many of the provider's fans are in support of them.  Lawyer should make a date with Miki and Netmichelle, as he hasn't seen either of them,  and then come back and rest his case.

Lawyer,
I just want to say that I think you are one of the good guys. I always enjoy reading your posts and I think you have alot to offer to our community. I will be honest when I say that I never thought that someone like you would have made the comments that you did about Miki. If it were a few of the other knuckle-heads on this board I would have just shook my head and said "here we go again". I'm glad that you saw my response as a discussion on the topic at hand and not a slam on you. That was my intentions.

The thing our counselor does not get is that we know that about you already. Miki- have fun and participate freely just like everyone else. PS- I LOVED YOUR NEW PICS-- Thanks for Sharing-- Beautiful Eyes!!!!