I'm a newbie who doesn't have much experience.  I have had a hard time dating in NYC because I lack confidence because of my lack of experience.  I recently celebrated my 30th birthday and have decided to directly deal with this issue.  I have a good job so cost isn't a huge deal.  If any of you guys can refer a patient provider, I would really appreciate it.  I am still going to be very meticulous about doing my homework but could use some help because the number of providers is a bit daunting.  Thanks in advance.

Good call. Kacey Cummings is a great educator.

Thats right , go see Kacey.

Thanks for the tip, buddym.  I spent about 5 hours perusing the reviews here in NYC last night.  I have narrowed down my search to about 9 highly rated providers.  The favorites feature is great!

I am so impressed by the professionalism, civility, and good natured humor on these boards.  This website is well worth my VIP membership.  I look forward to getting to know all the folks that make this such a great site over the coming months.  Good luck to all and remember to always be safe.

Who are the 9 that you have narrowed it down to? Maybe we can help you out further.

Good suggestion Energizer.

Hmmm, this is kind of embarrassing.  Ok, here goes, first, you all need to know that I am almost as thin (not quite as thin because I work out and am well defined but still thin) as that skinny, dorky guy in Road Trip who got "lucky" with that black coed.  Because of my genetics, it’s next to impossible for me to gain weight.  I'm not bad looking and always look impeccable because of my job on Wall Street.  Several women I socialize with tell me that I am handsome and that I just need to get out there.  It’s just hard for me to get out there because I don’t have any “predatorial” confidence because of my lack of experience.  That being said, to make it easier for me, I want someone who does outcall (less nervous in my own place) who is shorter than me (5’8”) and thin.  I actually prefer curvy women who are average and not too thin.  I just need someone thin now.  This is the reason why: Imagine you’re me and you’re at a bar trying to chat up some babe who is not fat at all.  Imagine seeing that her well-toned, athletic legs, are nice and thin but yours legs are even thinner!  That’s what its like to be me.  I know this all probably sounds silly but it’s a mental barrier that I am hopefully going to get over with some help over the next several months.  Here’s my current (but always amendable) list:

Iza
Alea
Jamie
Erin
Monika
Claudette
Savanah

I know that some of these women don't do outcall but I marked them as favorites because I would love to meet them later.

Suggestions are much appreciated.