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Regular arrangement
royoberoi 793 reads
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This question is for someone who has a regular arrangement (once a month, etc) with a provider.  I was wondering if you get a special deal once you become a regular client and whether most providers open to such an arrangement?

AshleyNYC_SoBe See my TER Reviews 606 reads
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I've provided arrangements like that, but it's in exchange for convenience- usually a set day ( say Tuesdays, off-peak hours) every time. No last-minute cancellations.  

Since the bulk of my clients are same-day bookings, this makes things a little more predictable and easier to schedule... so I don't mind giving a better rate :)

MelodysMemoirs See my TER Reviews 511 reads
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If it were more like 2x a month or once a week every month, zero cancellations, never late, always prescheduled the same day/time every time. That would make scheduling that much easier.  

In that case, I think I would love an arrangement like that and would be willing to work something out.

KeilaniNYC See my TER Reviews 535 reads
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I have to say that from my experience, expectations and shades of gray lead to problems in the hobbying world. I find that the beauty of a no strings attached relationship means clear financial and emotional boundaries. When one or both parties leave the black and white zone, it can cause some issues. I don't think there is anything wrong with an arrangement,  but only so long as everything is clear and discussed upfront. Proper communication is paramount.

I can say that I've met many men who ask or expect discounts. Men that I haven't seen in years will send me emails asking  "Do old friends get your old rate?"  It begs the question "What determines 'regular' status?"  

  Just some food for thought :)

crazyshit 269 reads
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A monthly arrangement implies a discount.  

Most providers will consider a discount only if you commit to a certain amount of money, which implies a commitment to a certain number of sessions.  And if they are smart, they want that upfront.  Would you trust the provider to give the money upfront?

MelAllen 250 reads
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she said she wasn't taking new clients.

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