Am I the only one who only looks for girls who do BBBJ….. A provider can be drop dead gorgeous and reasonably priced and I won’t even giver a second glance.
Maybe a survey about this is in order

Agreed! GFE means just that...a girlfriend experience, and BBBJ, and DFK are a must....Having said that, it's understood, in my opinion, that FS is always covered...(unlike a true girlfriend where you wouldn't be).

Lamont

What if the girl is drop dead gorgeous and she does everything except DFK?  Does it make a big difference if the rate is a little less and everything else is GFE?  


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GFE does mean DFK and DATY.
Now FS may be open to debate [depending on the definition of how full Full is].

maybe like an old girlfriend you hook up with one night for break up sex...she goes all the way buttttttttt just holds back on the DFK, maybe only LFK...just as a tease...let's call it OGFE (old girlfriend experience).

Tell you what, Samantha looks pretty good there...maybe I should experiment with her..,just to be sure, and in the intrest of science, of course

Lamont

Call me crazy, but I think DFK is even more important than BBBJ. DFK is the first thing I look for, then if BBBJ is offered, all the better.
I know that some providers think DFK is too 'intimate', more so than BBBJ. Go figure....

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I personally really enjoy DFK, so a provider not offering it would be a bit of a minus for me.

I think for GFE, I look forward (in order of importance):
BBBJ
DFK
DATY

But more importantly, the provider must maintain the illusion of being with one's girlfriend, instead of a paid transaction. Chemistry and passion are very important to this.

(Obviously, this is all just my opinion...)

I think DFK is the biggest part of the GFE.  BBBJ is #2 but I can live without it.  DATY is more like creating the BFE for her.

You SHOULD be able to take for granted that BBBJ is part of what you get when a provider describes herself as GFE. But you miss the point if you believe that GFE is the sum total of any particular group of acronyms. For me, GFE is short-hand for a mental and emotional as well as physical connection. It means taking the time to get to know a man on the phone before the first meeting. It means discovering what makes him tick... what turns him on intellectually, physically, spiritually... what kind of a sense of humor he has. It means being open enough to share with him the reality of who I am and what turns me on and sharing what my life is about. It means genuinely feeling an emotional connection even before geting together for the first time. It means knocking on the door of a stranger's hotel room with the exciting anticipation that I am about to meet a new friend and lover.

If I am not able to feel that kind of connection in advance, my intuition tells me not to set up a meeting, and I politely decline. For me, being a GFE provider means limiting my "clients" to a small group of regulars that truly become friends plus meeting occasionally with new guys that I click with in advance. For me, if I provided every acronym on your list but didn't FEEL a connection, I would not be providing a GFE. I am a GFE provider not because the GFE seems to be in such demand but rather because providing a GFE is the only way that I can truly enjoy my work and the only way that I can feel proud to tell my friends and family how I earn my living.

You are an exception, Amber!  If we're talking about LEVELS of GFE, you would be the definition of the untimate GFE!

Unfortunetly, We need to have some minimum common phrase standards by which you can provide a review of the lady. GFE has always been a topic of discussion on boards like this.  

Also, remember these acronyms are purposely used to avoid statements of acts which could be used as evidence by LE (another acronym).  

Maybe what we need is an Acronym for:
"mental and emotional connection; discovering what makes him tick; what turns him on intellectually, physically, spiritually; feeling an emotional connection; exciting anticipation".

Hey! I got it A.M.B.E.R.  As in "...she's an AMBER GFE.."

Amber,
I have been searching for someone with your approach since I began this activity, almost 3 years now.  So far, not to be found in the NYC-Long Island area!

It must be a real experience.  I personally must require BBBJ as part of the GFE definition.  DFK is great but let's face it...not everyone is comfortable with kissing especially since too much can be transmitted via kissing.  I know what you will say next, but BBBJ is way more safer than DFK.  Just my two cents and I know not everyone will agree and I respect your opinion.  Peace.

Here is one person's thought.

In many respects, I agree with Amber.  I have been verrrrrrrrry lucky in that the ladies I have been on dates with are girlfriends for the time we spend together.  In fact, I stay in contact with almost all of them.  I truly look for women that I have a connection with...intellectually, personality, physically, etc.

In addition, in my mind the experience includes deep kissing and uncovered French lessons.  I have been lucky that they have included soooooooooo much more....

H.