I cant believe I get this email today asking for a reference. I try to help out the best I can and promptly. First of all I have no records of this name, email address or phone number. I ask provider when did he see me and did he have a different email or contact info. The response is that he gives this provider my actual incall address, and some private info about what we did and things we talked about during the session. SO first of all, this address was one I worked out of about 3 years ago. So why is this guy using me as a reference 3 years later? Come on guys! Dont use a lady as a reference if you have seen her 3 years ago! Next why is it crutial for a guy to give another provider my personal incall address? NOT COOL! Next, he wants to tell her what we did? What we talked about? Some of the personal private things that are to be respected as not being available to the public!

Really I cant believe that a provider would accept that a potential client can give personal info of another provider as part of her screening methods, cant believe a client would use someone as a reference he saw 3 years ago or so, and cant believe he would have the disrespect to give that provider's incall location and other private details.

Just as you hobbyists expect us to keep your personal information PRIVATE it does work BOTH WAYS here! When we invite you over we dont expect you to go blabbing to everyone stuff that could put us in danger, just like we dont do that to you. Works both ways ok?