New York
I think us ladies have to keep each other safe, I'm happy to provide references, and am grateful to those ladies who are also reference friendly. It makes the screening process much faster and easier for everyone! I'm also not insulted one bit- have to taste the rainbow sometimes 
xoxo
This is really directed at you ladies. How do you feel when a client uses your name as a referral? Do you prefer they get permission from you first? And if they do, do you think something along the lines of 'What's the matter with me? Why is he going to someone else?', etc. I may well be over thinking it, but the whole thing makes me a little uncomfortable, for whatever reason.
I have heard only one horror story of a girl getting angry at a client for using her as a reference but I think the majority of us are happy to give references!
I let everyone know before they leave (or I leave) to please feel free to give my name as a reference, I want my clients to play safely, with great girls, it keeps us all out of trouble 
If it's been a while since you've seen someone it's nice to send her a note, remind her how wonderful you were and let her know that you've given her name to someone. This is what we do, most of us support other ladies AND our great clients, don't be uncomfortable!
I even happily suggest other ladies I hear good things about and have had ladies suggest me to their clients, as well! It's the circle of trust, haha
Play safe and have fun!!
Anna Faire xx
and I am reference friendly. I do try and get back as soon as possible with the other provider. No I am not insulted. Its business its not personal. I have also have heard horror stories. But I do believe the number is higher for providers who do give references. Your best bet and easiest way to do it is to give a heads up to the provider you are using as said reference. I would never give a reference to a provider who did not provide me with her own information such as website, TER id #..etc.. You never know who exactly is contacting you. That is another reason it is always best to give the provider a heads up you are using her.
Easy way to establish an openness with a provider is at the end of the session, you casually ask if you can use her as a reference.
ALways helps when you see this on a providers website!!
I think us ladies have to keep each other safe, I'm happy to provide references, and am grateful to those ladies who are also reference friendly. It makes the screening process much faster and easier for everyone! I'm also not insulted one bit- have to taste the rainbow sometimes xoxo
This is really directed at you ladies. How do you feel when a client uses your name as a referral? Do you prefer they get permission from you first? And if they do, do you think something along the lines of 'What's the matter with me? Why is he going to someone else?', etc. I may well be over thinking it, but the whole thing makes me a little uncomfortable, for whatever reason.
This is really directed at you ladies. How do you feel when a client uses your name as a referral? Do you prefer they get permission from you first? And if they do, do you think something along the lines of 'What's the matter with me? Why is he going to someone else?', etc. I may well be over thinking it, but the whole thing makes me a little uncomfortable, for whatever reason.
I always reply to they lady asap. I also let my gent friends that they can always use me as a reference. The important thing is that we keep our circle safe!
xoxo