IVE BEEN DATING A MARRIED MAN FOR 3 YRS NOW ,I JUST FOUND OUT HE HAS SEEN MORE THEN ONE PROVIDER ON EROS GUIDE,HE SWEARS UP AND DOWN ITS NOT HIM ,BUT I FOUND OUT DIFFERENTLY ,SINCE IM ALSO A PROVIDER * WHY COULDNT HE JUST COME STRAIGHT FORWARD AND BE HONEST WITH ME WHY LIE AND MAKE A BET OR SWEAR ON HES KIDS,THIS MAN IS SPOILED HE HAS HES CAKE ALREADY AND EATS IT TOO,HE HAS 3SOMES WITH ME SINCE IM BI AND HE GOES TO SWING CLUBS WITH ME WHATS THE POINT IN CHEATING AND LYING ABOUT IT,SOMETIMES I JUST DONT UNDERSTAND MEN AT ALL.SHOULD I MOVE ON AND FORGET ABOUT HIM OR  TRY TO PATCH THINGS UP?HELPPPPPPPPPPPP

Your seeing a married guy so the guy cheats on his wife.
Why would you believe him when he says he's not cheating on
you?  What do you think he says to his wife?

Move on.  How would YOU patch things up?  Sounds like he's the
one needing patching up - after you kick his butt to the curb.

fr

P.S. Don't write in all caps.  All caps means you're yelling.

The easy answer is yes, move on.

But that's based on 100 words you wrote.  Only you can make that decision, and if you're still considering staying with him, chances are, you probably will.

He's cheating, lying, and deceiving his own wife and family for 3 years with you.  Now you found out that he's cheating, lying, and deceiving you by seeing other providers.  So let me get this straight.....you're surprised at these recent developments ???  You've got to be kidding me....

Why does he have his cake and eat it too ??  Because he can.

What is so obvious on the outside looking in may not be
obvious when you're on the inside.

Take yourself out of the picture.  Assume you know what you
know but its happening to a friend or sister of yours.  If
you can do this, it will open your eyes.  Some people can't
do this - and pay a shrink to do it for them.

good luck,
fr

Do not date married guys. How many single guys are out there? Get rid of this married guy and find yourself a nice single guy.

Let me get this straight, now.  You want to impose some kind of "morality" in this transaction?  Perhaps you should seek some other form of employment.  You are missing the point in a major way.

remember what slick Bill said...Oral sex don't count!

Baddabing!

Read what you wrote an pretend it not you.  Would do you think about what you are readinding?  Get a life girl   mooove on!!!

thats s hard call babe,if you met him professionally then its what ist is was and will be...if not....well you have a problem...try being a male provider and trying to date....grrrr..