What if you dont get what you see in the picture. Can you send her back without shelling out any dough?

This topic has been discussed in great detail there.  Essentially, the answer is "yes".  

-Hoot.

Yes you can. Some places will ask for $20.00 for the driver but all in all. You don't have to see her if that's not her. I don't know why places do that. It must be embarassing for the girl plus it makes the guy feel bad.