dont work and just started living at a friends...what am i supposed to do? anyone got and ideas or wanna take a chance on me?

If you don't work......how can u afford to indulge in the pleasures of an escort?

Living at a friends.............what r u, a youngster?

Anyone that takes a chance on u is CRAZY!!!

Simliar problem for me:
- Work at place of business that I don't really have an office.
- Phone is not in my name, only use a cell phone.
- Julie's and Kamasutra will not take a chance on me either.

Any help?

well i guess im relatively young, i dont work cuz i dun need to or want to and well i live at a friends place cuz i can and i like it there.  if i can afford to do so why not do it.  im not le or diseased just a newbie.

With your grammar I suspect you'll be out of work a long time

You have a review,  get a ref. from that agency.

I don't give out work numbers or the place I work yet normally have no problem seeing someone. I only give out my cell #.

But then again, I am just plain iresistable (sp) both in personality and looks. LOL

narcissistic? definitley, but with good reason. ;^)

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Haha. You know it's funny. If the screening were for LE only, a person who couldn't provide ref.s,business phone, place of work etc., is LESS likely to be LE than one who can provide them. After all, LE is experienced at working undercover (pun intended) and would have no problem provided the needed false identity. But if the screening is also to rule out psychopaths, non-payers and other undesirables who could be trouble, then not insisting on having hobbyists provide such info would be foolhardy.

See someone who doesn't screen and then use them as a reference.

I have a similar problem. I dont work because I was smart enough to invest my money properly and retire at a young age. I dont need to work for the rest of my life so I cannot provide a business number because I dont have one. Most wont take a cell phone# and my home number is unlisted. Another problem I have is that here I am about to give a total stranger my personal info yet I know nothing about her except for her nickname and thats it. Most places say they only keep your info for verification purposes but how do we really know that? How do we know that if or when they are busted by LE that they wont give up all the info on everyone they see?

its a damned if you do and damned if you dont situation

MOST providers have a screening process but gentlemen please understand why.
It goes the same for johns. You shouldnt just give out all your information and there are ways of finding a if your home number is listed to you even if its unlisted. On another board I remember a john who posted about he gave out his home number (hes married..not to swift is he) and when he didnt show up the provider called the house and wifey answered.
Now most agencies wont give a reference on a john

We all know this hobby is somewhat based on lies

good luck gentlemen

Oh I understand why the screening process is done. I just dont like the fact that she has all this info on me and all I have of her is her number which is usually a cell number and her nick name. How do I know she wont use my info for another purpose? I think that my time of seeing providers is over for these reasons I have posted. I cant even get into Julies because of these and I was one of their firdt customers when they started. I remember seeing a canadian girl (Nicole?) and my very first appointment was with Fatima. I also had one session with Julie herself and it was fantastic. I then got into a serious relationship and stopped hobbying for about 3 years and no one that was at julies when I went is there now except for Julie and I doubt she remembers me from just one session. Oh well it was fun while it lasted. To all the ladies that I met thru the hobby and gave me pleasure and company I thank you from deep within my heart and soul.