Lets begin with the following two understandings:
1. Please understand that I really enjoy the services that providers, well... uh, provide (hmmm...)
2. Also understand that safety in this business, as with all businesses, is of paramount importance.

Those two items being understood, I can now get to the point.  For what I think are obvious reasons, I am never going to use my real name with a provider.  Conversely, I see more and more providers requesting names of customers that can be verified on a driver's license - again for obvious protection reasons.

Does anyone have a similar problem?  Are there any solutions, other than avoiding certain providers, that satisfy both provider and customer?

Thanks in advance.

When you visit a provider in her place of residence I don't believe it's realistic to expect anonymity. Some ladies in the past have not been vigilant about verifying with "arresting" and sometimes terrifying or fatal consequences. IN MY OPINION, for every 1 client that will not allow himself to be verified there are 2 others that will. For my health and well-being I'm more than happy to let the 1 go. A gentlemen's willingness to co-operate is the first indication that he will be a pleasure to see. The gentlemen that are arguementative concerning ID, are usually the ones that are problematic.

If you don't want to verify every time you would like to make an appointment just verify at one agency or house that doesn't keep personal info but gives you a password or pass number. Or get a short stay hotel and enjoy an outcall.

As always, Alexia is a fount of wisdom on this board. If you ever visited Alexia, you will see that she uses a shredder to obliterate the names of her clients once she has verified that they are who they are. And sometimes, an agency in New York will verify you to other independents--for instance, Julie's will verify you--BUT you must first show Julie's your driver's license so that they can confirm you are who you are. Every provider that I had a good time with always insisted on either direct verification or referrals or I e-mailed them through TER and the could read my reviews and comments going over twelve months.  There are no shortcuts.

I have made appointments with several girls over the past year.  The first one didn't require references, and she was my reference for the next one, and so on...

I used my real name, thinking I'd be asked to prove it, but about 10 providers later no one ever has asked to see my ID.  I am thinking of switching to a new fake name and using it going forward.  I know one or 2 of my references will still give me the ref with a new name.

A HornyEsq? So I guess you do pro-bono work? Perhaps you like to submit a lot of briefs?

If I were a man, absolutely never!  You never know who might be saving this and who might later be caught in a high-profile scene.....  You can always find a highly rated provider who might be more tolerant and forigiving for your need to remain private.  Just keep trying til you find the right one.

Many will be skeptical unless you provide a little something about who you are...... general info at first is fine.  If we need more, we'll let you know!

there are certain things you can do, never discuss $ or services with the new person until you have them in your mouth. If you are leary of someone ask them to take a shower, get them completely naked and immediately put their penis in your mouth even if it's for a second.

Now can you still get taken in? Sure, but when my lawyer starts asking me about the officers penis, was it circumsised, how long was it, did he have a mole on either side, I'm sure they'd much rather just drop it than go through the embarrassment of proof that their officers are allowing themselves to recieve oral sex a crime as far as they say, and if you can describe it to a Tee then you also have a sexual harassment case againt le since they are not allowed to take advantage of this situation, the chances of a scanal far out weigh a simple soliciting collar.  Just be smart enough to tell the arrestting officer what the cops penis looks like and that you have a lawyer and will do a sexal harassment suit if arrested. Chances are they won't even take a chance and take you in.

Another thing NEVER hand $ to a girl or let her know your putting the $ down or geture to it, she will know its there , there is no need for discussion that your placing it down, if you do that I'll tell you I have no idea what that is, and hope you get the hint, then I make sure your penis is in my mouth asap.

My reg clients I get at the end simply because I trust them but also thats another goodidea to get paid afterwards if you can trust the new client and are secure he is not going to pull a fast one. I have never (knock on wood had this problem ever) Once I forgot to get paid and he called me 20 mins later, I had totally forgot, he riminded me that he forgot to pay, so he dropped it off the following week at a convienient mutual friends house in NYC. I have had 2 guys leave and come back immediately because we both forgot. I've never had someone stiff me, or "Theft of services" which would really stand up in court (sarscam)

If you didnt get $ for the services then it is not an exchange for sex and $. Someone with a law degree either please correct me or perhaps enlighten us if in fact what I say is true, not to mention other things would be useful to know. Hope this helped a bit.

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