So I spied an intriguing ad on BP and emailed the provider. Her rate is REALLY good and she's apparently staying REALLY close to me. Super convenient. I'm of course worried it TGTBT (hope that's the right acronym) and am even more worried that she's asking for a 50% deposit via bank wire! Sortof new to all this, seems REALLY unsafe. Advice? Spidey sense going off and saying skip this...

An unreviewed girl staying in an expensive hotel, offering a low rate, and asking for payment by a method that will leave a paper trial?  You really have to ask if that's a bad idea?

Many top notch girls will require deposits.  
I also request a 50% deposit (when I travel outside of Chicago where I am based) to book & confirm appointments.  
I have years worth of reviews & am established in the community...so folks know I am not gonna abscond with their cash.
Look into if this provider has reviews, and if she seems legit enough.  
otherwise, up the ante and spend more on someone who you know is trustworthy

No way I would put a deposit down.  I'm sure your reliable, yet all I  need is one ooops. And I'm out of my deposit with no recourse.  Any guy who does this is an idiot

Way more trouble than it's worth. Most providers, even top notch top of list types do not ask so why deal with this hassle when you don't have to.  Just move on to the next lower maintenance provider. Life is too short. If you have good refs and been screened it's low (not zero though) risk.  On rare occasion I have been stood up by either some sudden fictional emergency or worse yet NCNS and where is my reimbursement??

that's just silly.  
I love this career because I love the time spent between the sheets, and I love men, and I really love couples.. and I love being adored, and going on extended vacations with my clients, and being spoilt!  
Taking advantage of someone's trust is just filthy.  

Few Red flags:

* for safety reasons, providers NEVER post the address of their hotels

* the Greenwich Hotel rooms starts at 595.00 a night (plus taxes)

* she will send you a website link, but her rates in London are higher than her rates in the US - no girl will travel across the pound to make less

* the email address on her website is different from the one given on BP

* on the website, she offers cam shows at different hours of the day with other lady - asking for 50% deposit her rates

* one of the guys (from the other board) found out that whoever is behind this scam is using the pictures of a cam girl: http://bustygisele.com/ = for the ads and site

* here is Gisele website: http://www.xogisele.com/ - she's not a provider





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Sorry Olivia