Many claim to be GFE and are far from it (PSE maybe, but not GFE). To me the difference is like day and night. Its intimacy verses a pure lusty F!$k fest. Heck I get in a feisty mood from time to time, but I am looking for a slow, intimate, foreplay filled time with plenty of hugging and touching, etc.  

Then there is the issue of bait and switch. I met a very lovely lady a few months back based on an EROS ad. She was a very lovely girl, but not the girl I expected...enough said here...just make it real..Professional pictures are fine but photoshop is just fake.

Lastly, I new york is a tough town, but why can't a provider be a genuinely nice person (there are many of you, just hard to find in NYC)...very easy to find in London and in the southern states.

If you are out there please PM me or post here and lets spend some memorable and special time together.

Hobbyists if you know someone like this please let me know. Thanks!

The fact that you are the only person who reviewed the girls you (allegedly) saw this year could mean a couple of things - none of which include you reading reviews of ladies before seeing them.

Your reviews make you look like the one of the top TOfTT guys.  
I'm all for encouraging that as I became tempted by one of your reviews (but ultimately did not go through with it).

My question: Do you actually go see unknowns on eros for $600 a shot ? (Annabelle)
If so, you're setting yourself up for disappointment.

Read reviews! Plenty of nice GFE gals in nyc

Why do you appear to see almost exclusively girls who appear to have no experience as you are their only reviewer . Then also your review average is a 6 i wouldn't see you for anything at all . Not a chance your reviews suck even the girls you claim to like with amazing skills according to You get a 6 . Who wants to see a guy who can not be happy with you ? Some people you just can not make happy looking at your reviews you appear to be one of them . Why not see reviewed girls who have a track record ? i don't get it . And so many at under 150 dollars? Are you in Mexico? Very strange.  Perhaps you do not have VIP ? I would be avoiding you like the plague .

...check out my reviews. I pride myself on being down to earth, fun and genuine.  

xoxo~
Adrienne

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In all honesty I thought Eros was a place where legit escorts go to place ads. Little did I know this is back page with a bit more class. I have read many reviews and many seem to point to a pse type of experience where clothing comes off fast and the action begins till it's over. Perhaps it's because guys write the reviews that this perspective is portrayed. Annabel's ad seems legit and she (the picture) had a lovely and sweet disposition. And yes I took one for the team. That said she wasn't a bad looking girl in fact she was a real college girl. Thing is, with no experience it was a less romantic feeling.

Call me a dork, while everyone was out partying in college I was studying my ass off. now I am playing catch up and having to pay for it through trial and error  its not like i do this every day (the 600 was for 1.5 hrs... I was hoping for a long introduction)

why do i keep going for the non-reviewed providers, because its a chicken and egg thing. if you want to see a "popular" provider you need a reference from another popular provider...well popular providers wont see me. so i end up with the lower quality fakers who cant be my reference in the end either.

I am now hopeful though, I begining to realize that all the best talent requires a provideor reference and I don't have any with these toftt types. So I must take a leap of faith and do the employer reference thing (which scares me to death).

Any suggestions of the safest way to do this?  It could save me from getting blackmailed.


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Please suggest one of these wonder girl for 150... I don't believe they exist. The only girls who's reviews I like cost 600+ per hour and an hour is not long enough to enjoy the company of a women in a truly intimate setting. Find me the 200 per hour dream girl and I  will book her up for months.

The girls you seek are not $150/hour chicks on Backpage. You're also kind of a crappy reviewer.. why would any upscale lady want to see a dude that gives lame scores even for girls that he likes?

Time to get a new TER ID or not be such a nitpicky ass.

Now you have a chance to break that chicken& egg cycle you're referring to. Treat them well- as the English say, don't cock it up!

As for employment verification, maybe they will let you get by on your 8 reviews- they seem legit, albeit ill advised. If not, just go with established independent ladies with many reviews. I've done employment verification before early on when, like you, I didn't have reviews from independents. It's unlikely they're willing to risk their reputations to engage in the thing you're concerned about.

maybe I'll give Annabelle a call again...

happy new year and hobbying!

For your information, TER did not let me grade these providers higher for a variety of reasons, for starters their pictures were fake. And their ads were misleading.

That said, I understand your feedback.

thanks for the note.

I saw your reviews, and your pictures..you are a beautiful women.

BTW Your web link did not seem to work.

Happy new year!

Claude

OK so you are not likely to find a large number of women in the 150 or even 200 an hr range that are going to be there to knock your socks off or even kiss . Sadly at that price point you will find more of the same . However as far as screening you can go to a verification site and Not share your work info with a provider at all . P411.com as well as Date-check.com have these types of services .  
These do work well for screening for many girls . Stop seeing girls that are ineligible for good review scores  based on things like fake pics . How you ask? By picking girls who have at least some reviews from some reviewers with a track record as well . More than one review , your better off with someone with upward of five or ten reviews generally speaking . I am sorry but the price point your at makes it more difficult as well . Annabell is 600 for 1.5 hrs which breaks down to 400 an hr though which is more of a normal range for a good provider . If you can try and go for a little more than the 150 or 200 girl , you maybe happy you did .

I forgot to mention p411 and date check.

I just presumed with 8 reviews he knew of these. And that ladies he was interested in wanted more than the basic membership. One or both were running a free trial recently. Many ladies will see a basic p411 member, meaning the site has screened id details, but the member does not have provider references.

Choose a reputable provider with good reviews and without a record of starting drama.  You can search the boards for her posts to get an idea.  A lot of us ladies who offer employment verification must keep the information strictly confidential, or we ruin our own reputations.  In a black market industry, our reputations are our careers.  So why would we ruin our careers to blackmail one guy?  This is especially true the more successful and well-established the lady, I think.  Ladies who are newer have less to lose if they misuse your information.  Pick a very well-established provider who comes off as a true professional to you and do the employment verification thing.  Even though lots of providers require two references, they may accept just one reference if the provider is very well-known and has a good reputation.  Lots of us who are providers receive sensitive personal information on a daily basis and are accustomed to doing our verifications, deleting the sensitive personal information, and never thinking about it again.  If I memorized every guy's legal name and workplace I would have no room left in my brain to think about more exciting things.  Like what I plan to eat for dinner tonight.

...I will see what the issue is.