I've been seeing this UTR college student. I've basically have become her sugar daddy. I like this relationship. It works for both of us. The other day I received a Facebook request from one of her roommates. What gives. Should I be worried of being outted. I thing she may have told her roommate about me. Maybe her roommate wants a sugar daddy as well. Should I accept her request to be friends.
If the relationship is as good as you say it is, there won't be any problem with discussing this with your UTR. Actually, this will be a good test of how cool she is with you, because this will be the situation where you'll find out if she's got your back or if she's just having the UTR relationship solely based on it being a transaction.
If she puts up a red flag and says, don't connect with the roommate, that shows loyalty. If she says it's cool, well dude, you hit the co-ed jackpot! LOL! But if she acts cagey about your question, this should raise red flags to you about the nature of your UTR relationship.
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Posted By: nyc1970
I've been seeing this UTR college student. I've basically have become her sugar daddy. I like this relationship. It works for both of us. The other day I received a Facebook request from one of her roommates. What gives. Should I be worried of being outted. I thing she may have told her roommate about me. Maybe her roommate wants a sugar daddy as well. Should I accept her request to be friends.
You are talking about her loyalty? In simply terms she shared his personal information without his consent and now he has a hooker attached to his facebook account.
She is not loyal and she doesn't have his back. WTF! This is one of the most idiotic replies imaginable. She outed him!
To the OP, dump this idiot that you are seeing before you get in worse trouble.
Totally agree. There is no loyalty or confidentiality in this scenario. Get out.
Posted By: PhiloBeddoe
You are talking about her loyalty? In simply terms she shared his personal information without his consent and now he has a hooker attached to his facebook account.
She is not loyal and she doesn't have his back. WTF! This is one of the most idiotic replies imaginable. She outed him!
To the OP, dump this idiot that you are seeing before you get in worse trouble.
The roommate didn't call his cell phone, or show up at his door. She invited him to be friends on facebook.
There is no indication that the UTR even knows about it. It sounds like he is FB friends with the UTR. That's on him.
That means all her friends can see him in her friend list. The roommate might just be friending all her friends connections. It happens all the time, especially at the college level where kids collect FB friends
I just don't know what exactly you'd have to gain.
Posted By: nyc1970
I've been seeing this UTR college student. I've basically have become her sugar daddy. I like this relationship. It works for both of us. The other day I received a Facebook request from one of her roommates. What gives. Should I be worried of being outted. I thing she may have told her roommate about me. Maybe her roommate wants a sugar daddy as well. Should I accept her request to be friends.
Some people collect "friends". The roommate could simply be going through all her connections and inviting all their friends.
Since the UTR is your FB friend, I am assuming that you are single. If you are married and this is your regular FB account, then you are already outed and taking a huge risk. If you are single, then what's the risk or harm?
You can bet all the money in the world that your SB told her friend about it (hard to keep secrets in college, thankfully, I'm one of the few that can) and you and is most definitely looking for a SD too.
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