I recently met a provider who was easily one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen. Nearly 6ft and tight everywhere. Upon her arrival at my hotel, we discussed the fee for three hours of her time and I felt pretty clear that was an all-inclusive fee. This wasn't my first night of fun with a lady of the profession. However, after a lot of teasing and warm-up fun, when it came time for the main event, she informed me there was an additional charge for the experience. She was pretty matter of fact, pointing out she feels she's worth it, and if it were a business transaction I would say she was professional. But it killed the mood for quite a while.
As I look back on it, it left me wondering if anyone else has experienced this kind of a practice? Why would a girl charge a sliding scale for services when her ad says GFE and when we discussed a fee upfront?
But why did you not know her rate before you met?
You should post a review of this experience. That’s what we’re all here for.
That's odd that happened, I've never had that issue in LA. I'm new to NYC, would you recommend this particular provider despite the sliding scale? If so, could you provide a name/link? Seems like everything else was a great experience.
I’ve heard of this from low end Vegas Bar girls, but never well reviewed Highend New York girls. Where did you find this person?
Of a GFE experience to me. I'm a provider that promotes GFE and submissive sessions. The whole point of GFE is for everything to feel fun and natural. Asking for a higher donation in the middle of intimacy ruins the point of a GFE! And sounds kind of unprofessional and awkward. I wrote this in another thread but GFE should be:
♡ French kissing
♡ BBBJ with eye contact
♡ DATO
♡ DATY
♡ Light dirty talk
♡ Unlimited pops
♡ Sweet/bubbly personality
♡ Cuddling
♡ Conversation
♡ Maybe a body rub
♡ Not watching the clock
Basically I see it as like having a sweet and naughty girlfriend for a short time who you have chemistry with in bed and out of bed.
I can attest that this beautiful lady Chose, lives up to and plus what she described. and from our side, we also should treat the lady with respect and care. make it mutual and be generous, place a review etc.
it is chole
sorry for the typo
excellent definition, Chloe! Agree it should be fun and natural 
Posted By: chloemercier
Re: Seems like the opposite
Of a GFE experience to me. I'm a provider that promotes GFE and submissive sessions. The whole point of GFE is for everything to feel fun and natural. Asking for a higher donation in the middle of intimacy ruins the point of a GFE! And sounds kind of unprofessional and awkward. I wrote this in another thread but GFE should be:
♡ French kissing
♡ BBBJ with eye contact
♡ DATO
♡ DATY
♡ Light dirty talk
♡ Unlimited pops
♡ Sweet/bubbly personality
♡ Cuddling
♡ Conversation
♡ Maybe a body rub
♡ Not watching the clock
Basically I see it as like having a sweet and naughty girlfriend for a short time who you have chemistry with in bed and out of bed.
I love having regular clients. People i know and enjoy . Raising the rate or asking for an extra fee is so wrong . You should mention that in the review
totally agree. I have a select few that have become regular friends and it is far more comfortable for both of us .
I didn't find any other reviews, which is my fault. I found her on EROS and I've had other good experiences on there. This happened in Vegas once, but it was clear at the outset that there was a menu and variable pricing for services. But when a girl posts an ad posing as GFE and there's an agreed upon rate upfront that was VERY high-end then the bait and switch is very uncool.
Sorry to hear of this. That said, my experiences with EROS has been the exact opposite of your typical experience with them. The (albeit few) times I've taken the bait based on their ads have been regrettable. I tend to go with P411 or here as the primary sources of choice providers.
Take it for what it's worth.
I don’t upcharge for GFE services. That just means she may not enjoy what she’s doing or be uncomfortable at her base rates. Weird either way. I’d say leave a review and move on. Do your research next time.
Generally speaking a 'GFE' experience is an all inclusive experience and should include what you'd expect your girlfriend to provide. While there is no set definition, when a provider advertises as GFE I'd expect at least the following: cuddling/teasing, LFK/DFK, DATO/DATY, light dirty talk, friendly personality, position/service requests (within reason), no clock watching, and MSOG (for appts 1+ hour in length)
What I would expect an upsell for above the standard GFE may include: Greek, CIM, COF.
I've never experienced it myself, though I'm also getting back in the game after a long break lol, but only place I've ever really heard of this has typically been Vegas call girls but Vegas is just a whole other beast of it's own.
I do not upcharge in sessions for full service- I think that’s the whole point of full service lol. I don’t know any providers who do this- it would certainly throw off the mood. Sorry you went through this. Do your research next time.
Upcharging and deposits are two things that kill the experience.
