Or may not .. May I make you smile?
 Would not you be smiling reading THAT
" Ah, women. They make the highs higher and the lows more frequent"

 It is human nature down ..FEEL THAT WAY .. may be Friedrich Nietzsge quotes would cheer you up..
 Just something to read and smile- ( I am not taking his stand just want to cheer you up and  bit and hear what other would say? )
 "Woman's love involves injustice and blindness against everything that she does not love... Woman is not yet capable of friendship: women are still cats and birds. Or at best cows.."

But other hand he writes  

 A real man wants two things: danger and play. Therefore he wants woman as the most dangerous plaything. Man shall be educated for war, and woman for the recreation of the warrior: all else is folly. - Friedrich Nietzsche

 
You are going to women? Do not forget the whip! - Friedrich Nietzsche
 
 The last one was from  Ten Tips for a Great Marriage According to Friedrich Nietzsche.. want to know more?? Are you smiling how??!! Hahaha  
 so do not get toooo serious..

And our yourself glass of good whisky. or wine, start sugar, have you dog next  you , start up fire place .. and let me be your Scheherazade, even via cyber internet  

We, man and women we love to share.

Did the plans come together or NOT come together??? If they came together and it was a let down then that's a shame... but if you made plans and they did come together but didn't come together... then that's a whole other kettle of fish!!!

Just saying I think I get the gist of your post but it was a tad confusing!!