Hey Ladies  

Question...Would you ladies every accept Checks as a form of donation under any circumstance from a Client? I imagine the overwhelming answer will be No.  Would you ever accept a Check from a regular client? What about a regular client that didn't even live in New York, but visited you occasionally when traveling to New York for work? The latter is a situation I'm currently in and I'm curios to get ALL opinions on the matter.  

Thanks!!

what a need to write a check ? -
? I see only  two reasons why client would love  to pay by checks  
1.- he wants to know her real name ( but be nice, be regular ,be upscale yourself  -and you would know all any way  at list with me )

2 Identity thefts- as  always form dating sites someone wants send you money and presents and wants know all about you address back account name etc .. it is .. just criminals ..
 (I am picking up my share  of clients and from  dating sites  as well - you would not believe what a funny stories i may share ( as let say  man who wanted date me there few years sending  YEARS !! sent me emails ..
 just visit me when he found me  on TER .. I asked him - why you was on other site  if you are married .. so  answer the same - wanted to have sex with no strings.. and  now finally I saw you here and I  decided to try .. so  it is not just one occasion.. so ..I use those normal sites just to make some living as well am I cynical ? ha ha ha I trully ahve fan going on civic dates and  see how he tries to get it .. on interest .. as - ah... you need it also .. let me make you happy ..
I tell them somehow .. some agree some  leave .. but .. they see me even on face book my escorting site  you can find me too there  as Olga Heifetz.. so any  way ..

CHECKS ONLY FROM REAL FRIENDS AND EVEN THOUGH  sent in advance .. and whom i know as  well  .. wellll..... and as arule those men can do wire paypall or just ok with cash ..
 why you want donate with checks ?? it is not .. hmm Tax deductible  
there high  risks of.  USF checks .. So I doubt that any one wise women accept your check for very first time even if you be willing to send it ahead of time .. do you know how many  times we have offers from dating sites to send money , presents etc ..ONLY if I gave him and name and address and all it is just identity thefts .. so unless I know all about my cleint  then I will take advance payments by checks or wire .. before that-
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If you do not want deal with cash  you always can pay pall  or use green dots and  as matter of the fact  many accept CC I would trust to regulars with wire transfers .
REGULARS OF MANY TIMES with good reputation  and any way   those men will prepay  way ahead L

-- Modified on 9/26/2013 9:33:03 PM

That being said, the only circumstances that make sense would be if you and she are willing to walk to the bank together and cash that check in person prior to the engagement. That being said, good luck with that.  

She will have to cash it at her bank. And I suppose if you are willing to pre-pay for the session to ensure that it's valid that could fly as well.

SindeeNYC,

I see what your saying, but do you think all of that would be necessary for an ATF Client, who knows your real name, has seen you 15-20+ times in the past 1.5 years, and is obviously a regular repeat client? And again, the checks are not being cashed in advance, but 1-2 days after the appointment is over. Is this something you would ever be comfortable with ?  

Would you really feel the need to walk into the bank together or the need to cash the check in advance, if it was with an ATF Client

exactly that way. Because she trusted him.  

An unfortunate lesson learned.

I can't see why a check is necessary when there are so many other viable options.

Tabu, thanks for the feedback. Sorry to hear that happened. I could never do that to my ATF. I don't get how he was a "long time" client and just out of nowhere decides to screw her over. Something's not adding up there. IMHO

a check under special circumstances from a long time client that I feel I can trust. I have done it in the past but am not overly thrilled with doing it. I don't think I would be comfortable doing it with a large check though...

Hugs
bobbi

you be .. you know .. giving yourself  so how it is different then

He had been seeing her for several years, so she absolutely no reason to doubt him. Yet it happened, and of course, she never heard from him again.

You seem awfully invested in defending this idea, which makes me wonder about you. If you can write a check, you can cash a check and give the cash to the provider. Voila!

Just sayin'.

Agreed 100%...no checks for me! I do trust a reg with wire transfer but a check....not for me...good old cash is the best way!